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I'm very confused. I've been dating this guy for about two months (although we've only seen each other about once a week, we've both been travelling on weekends and are busy). We had a fantastic weekend. We hung out by the pool, he took me out to dinner, and we hung out with my friends. We do have sex, but that's definitely not what our interactions revolve around, and it doesn't happen every time.

On Sunday, after spending the day with my friends, he seemingly randomly told me that he has so much respect for me but doesn't want to hurt me and wanted me to know that he's not looking for anything serious right now. I was kind of thrown off and thought he meant he wasn't looking for anything serious EVER with me, but then he mentioned that he felt it was 'too soon' and that we haven't actually hung out that much. I agreed that it's too soon so put a label on anything, we like each other but we're still getting to know each other. He left because he already had plans with his friend and then said he'd come back if I was up to hanging out. He ended up not coming back because my stomach went sour. The next day I asked him if he wanted to go to the gym with me and he said yes, so we went and he just seemed kinda nervous around me, and then when we were leaving he invited me to get a smoothie so we did.

It's not completely abnormal for us to not text every day, but it feels off after that weird conversation. I haven't heard from him since Monday. There's a possibilty he's not texting because he knows I had a couple exams this week, but I'm not really the type of person to stop talking to someone when I'm busy.

Also, thought I'd add, I've also met his friends and he regularly asks about mine and really likes them.

Thoughts on this? I have this sinking feeling he's going to ghost because it's happened to me before.

*Summary*: guy takes me on dates, likes friends, I like his friends, still went out with me after saying he's not ready for something serious

This isn't really a question, i just need to vent and ugh sorry. When i was in middleschool i wad being bullied by my so called friends at the time (there were only 18 girls in whole of 6th grade and only 7 girls in my class) 3 of those girls in my class were popular and i was friends with them, the other girls left were mostly “nerds”. One of those nerdy girls (the nerdiest of all) started talking to me she was awkward but had the sam sense of humor as me. We quickly started hanging out but my popular self got embarrassed by her. Those popular girls started bullying me ( it turned out to be jealousy) my brother is also an alcoholic and drug addict so my 11/12 year old self was going through a lot of shit. So this nerdy friend never washed her hair and she always wore the weirdest combos of outfits. I always acted like i was wiser and everything i said to her was correct. So naturally i had watched clueless so i wanted to give her an amazing glamorous makeover... thats were i went wrong. My insecure little ass, called her a nerd and said she was to awkward, so i would try to teach her to be less awkward, i went through her closet and helped her pick cute outfits. We created this things called journey to prettiness. I was trying to help, but i feel like this will always haunt her. I made her feel like she wasn’t good enough. I have apologized many times for this she has always accepted and apologized back for some weird shit she also did. This still haunts me, i have since become a better person and my personal issues are solved. I just don’t know if i can ever forgive myself for this. What are you’re guys’s opinions. Does this forever make me a bad person?

so me and this guy have been really good friends for around a year and a half, he says he doesn’t have a crush on me but he constantly flirts with me. we hit it off from day one, the first time we ever spent time together (which was a day after we met) we cuddled in his front yard and looked at the stars and talked until around 2am. and he does this weird thing where he licks my face. (strange ik) and he’s always done that, and he thinks it’s the best thing to bite my neck and collar bone and leave bruises and he’s left hickeys a few times. another thing is, i’ve told him to not bite my neck and such because it turns me on and he just laughed about it and does it anyways. we have a great friendship and he plays with my hair and cuddles me and i do the same to him but he said he doesn’t like me, i just find it strange he does all this and flirts with me all the time if he doesn’t like me. but i do think it might be because of his dad, his dad told him he’s not aloud to date anyone under 16 after he turned 16 and he’s now 17 and i’m turning 16 next year. i just don’t know what to do, i have such hard feelings for him and he acts like he does me too but i just don’t know what to do :(