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. we met up on Thursday and quite honestly it was amazing she was everything i could hope for in a person there was constant joking and laughing with general goofing around and pushing eventually we sat down where we talked and held these long gazes after a while she cuddled up to me and we just talked about us and that we wanted this to be serious at the end of all this i gave her a hug and got on the bus home. All was great from this point we planned to meet the next day but postponed it due to weather.
We met for the second time same place on Saturday but she was different i felt no chemistry there was a lingering silence and it felt horrible this seemed like a complete different girl not one i shared all the lovely memories with from the day before i asked her why she was acting different and she said im just not in a good mood. It continued to be quite awkward there was no flirting no chemistry while i forced a smile out of it nor did she try to initiate any physical contact like the time before. near the end of it when we said goodbye there was no hug no lasting eye contact it just felt so horrible
when i got home i apologised to her because i thought i did something wrong but she insists its just a bad mood i ask her if she's still interested and she says yes, later on that night we discuss about a next time and i ask her where she would like to go but then she says
''I don't know maybe we should slow down a bit, like not get into anything before we've seen each other a few more times (; ''
then i ask her to explain her responce
''like after the stuff you said today it makes me wonder if we haven't thought about it enough first''
suddenly her minds changed and she doesn't think we can be in a relationship this quickly
i feel hurt from this and im not sure what to say or think of it could anyone please advice

so from a girls point of view what is she doing ://