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I tried to get with this guy but he never gave me an answer. He said he'd call but the call never came. so I moved on I'm dating someone else. He knows this so. I told him I'm fine being his friend. Because I thought he obviously didn't like me if he never called. He said were cool but not exactly friends. Today he asked me for money after I said no. He said oh yeah I'm going to get u somthing for Christmas. At this point. I'm confused because he never bought me anything even before. I told him I like him an we were best friends. He asked if I believe him an. I told him no because he has a reputation of being a liar. He said it 3 times he saw me today. An he asked for a dollar twice. He claims he's going to get me perfume an a necklace. 😒 I just said ok w. e because I really don't believe him he lied to me before. Do you guys think he's lying this time? why would he buy me somthing? I don't really know he seemed serious but can't even remember to call me so I really doubt it.

After being with this guy for 6 years, I am starting to see things in him much more clearly.
1. He has to say something negative about everything. i. e. do you want to eat this? "ew gross"
i. e do you want to go here "we'll have a bad time" i. e. do you want to read this book "looks like a terrible book"
THEN he has to say something positive about it, i. e man that was good green bell pepper, it tastes so good, wow we had such a good time, let's go again!, and "that book was so funny, why didn't you tell me it was such a great book!"
2. He never listens to me, i. e. I am not mad, "yes you are mad!", I don't want to talk about it anymore "we're going to keep talking about it, continues name calling and bad things he will do in the future"
3. Me telling me how others are treating me bad "Him", starts treating me the exact same way I just told him others were treating me bad. i. e. others call me a liar, he starts to do the same. i. e. others start calling me evil, root of all evil, he starts doing the same.
4. he also gets really angry and tells me that I'm the reason he gets angry. That I'm the root of all his problems.
5. When I talk to him about how others are treating me, instead of just saying "well that sucks" he straight up tells me to stop talking or hanging out with these people. These people are my friends! They are my family! I just want someone to empathize with, and he has zero empathy!
6. He pays back. i. e. If I buy something or goes somewhere, then he has to spend the same amount or more money (it's our money) and if I go somewhere, then he gets to go somewhere too. If I tell him to pick up after himself, then he tells me to pick up after myself too! i. e. I do 10 loads of laundry, and I ask him to do 2. he will tell me that if I tell him to do 2 loads of laundry, then he can tell me to do 2 loads of laundry too. i. e. If I tell him to pick up after himself, while I'm doing a million other tasks, then he has to tell me to pick up and clean the kitchen too! While I'm doing more important tasks! I Have to do 20 loads of laundry in silence, I have to clean up after him in silence or he will get really mad and we'll have a fight! What shall I do? AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

I feel like I am married to a narcissist? What can I do?

Can you change a person?

So I've been talking to this guy for 7 months and things are getting serious. We met when I was 17 and he was 24 so i lied and said I was 18. BUT, I lied 3 times at first he thought I was 20 then I told him that I was actually 18 (I was 17) and then I told him that my birthday was actually tomorrow (when it was actually months from the date) and I was turning 18. I'm afraid if I came clean he'd write me off as a lair but the question isn't if I should come clean it's how I should come clean. I was thinking of something like "I have to be honest with you before we move any further. I have been lying about my age (actually.. my birthday) I was 17 the whole time we talked and I'm sorry if you think I'm a liar or that you can never trust me, and I completely understand if that's the case. I can tell you I'm not a liar and how I'm honest with everything, but I understand if you think this is a deal breaker of some sorts. I am 18 now (haha, I promise I'm not lying this time I'll show you my passport if you'd like.) and if you want to proceed with the relationship that would be great, if you want to end things and just be my friend I also understand"

edit : we aren't dating now, we've just been talking.