Search Results: nervous at a first date

How do you deal with the feeling of being dumped by someone you're not even dating?

I recently started dating after a 6 year break. The last guy strung me along for a year and it took me a while to get over that coupled with being a 28 y/o virgin and being afraid to tell guys. Anyway, I've been out with...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is he shy, busy, interested or not?

Went on a date with this engineer who seem interested. he seem nervous the first time we had sex but later went to be tender and affectionate during, post sex and morning before he left. he told me not to delete his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Why is he so confusing? Does he like me? Does he know I do?

I've had this crush for a while and my interest in him is constantly swaying. He is social, confident and known by everyone. I'm 20 and have never had a boyfriend, I manage pretty well on my own cause I'm always busy with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Would it be weird if I tried to kiss the guy I’ve been talking to at the beginning of our second date?

So our first date went really well, we connected super well. We’ve been talking for a few weeks now. We’ve talked on the phone a lot before the date too. But we only hugged at the beginning and then at the end of the date...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How to dress and act on a date with an older guy?

So, I just turned 18 and this guy who is actually a doctor at the hospital where I was on placement for university has asked me on a date, he'd stare and smile at me a lot before he actually asked me out, at first I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How do you cope with insecurities to where they won't effect your ability to form relationships with the opposite sex?

I have a very low self esteem. I get panic attacks at the thought of rejection. To the point I can't focus on being myself because I am to panicked about her not being interested or the date not going well. I end up not...

Redawnx

Xper 4 Age: 33

Dating

Any tips for a first date?

It's technically my first "first-date" and I can't help but feel slightly nervous... we aren't going anywhere special, but I don't know what to wear, how to act, what to say, what not to say, or how to say it! How do...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think his new relationship sounds promising, first serious relationship after divorce?

He's divorced under a year. His divorce was finialized in July of 2017. I'm a bit of a stalker, sorry not sorry. But I recently discorved she's not even divorced yet from her husband. I know she has two kids. While...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Could he be taking it slow because I make him nervous?

So I started talking to this guy about a month ago on a dating app. We talked for about 3-4 days or so before we met, unintentionally, at the gym. It was a quite breef, but nice meeting. We continued talking and maybe a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

How do you court a guy?

I have a strong feeling he likes me, he being a newer coworker who moved into town. He is a very handsome Native American and Spaniard, very laid back, spiritual type personality. He spoke to me immediately his first day,...

dancing_in_nebulas

Explorer Age: 32

Dating

First Date Advice?

So I'm thinking about asking a girl from my college out... the problem is I'm not sure if she's really into me or if I'm going overboard on a first date. We are in Tampa and there is a large theater nearby that runs a lot...

SamboJambo

Xper 4 Age: 31

Dating

What do you, as a woman, consider as too personal of a topic to be asked about when on a first date?

I ask because there are times where I feel a beginning of a connection (before even going on a date with her) and with that, I ask more personal questions (but not too too personal). I then sense a hesitancy in her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Scared if he won't like me in real life?

I have been talking to one of my cousins boyfriends cousins for about 5 weeks now. I am 17 and he is 20, he started talking to me first after he added me on instagram and snapchat (he doesn't have facebook) we started...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

My crush is going to prom with me? What do I do?

Just a two months ago, I finally gather the courage to ask my crush to sadies, unfortunately he couldn't go because of family emergency. He called me the other day and we talked on the phone for an hour about our lives...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Meeting friends for first time after only one date?

I just met this guy yesterday for about an hour and now he's inviting me out for a drink with friends for tonight. I already have social anxiety, so I was nervous enough yesterday meeting him and now, I don't even really...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

My crush is going to prom with me, what should I do?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Should I Ask Her Out?

So there's this girl, I had initially known her from following and followed by on insta, and I thought she looked really nice and cute. I saw her on Thursday at a meetup, and we got along quite well. I don't know if she's...

Nicole_Is_Bored

Xper 5 Age: 30

Dating

How can I figure out his intentions?

I recently reconnected with this guy I dated a couple of years ago after we ran into each other randomly. When we dated he'd been a bit of a dick, but nothing that broke my heart or anything. He asked if I wanted to get...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is he possibly into me?

Hey, i am a little confused and need help. There is this boy i have been liking and crushing on for quite a while now and yeah we text everyday and he asked me out last Sunday. Sometimes I initiate the conversations,...

blueberryy

Xper 3 Age: 25

Guy's Behavior

Guys do you ever cancel on a female because you are nervous?

Have you ever flaked on a first date or first time to hang out with your crush? Have you ever been filled with anxiety? If so why is that? Especially if you just landed the date to begin with?

Anonymous

(36-45)