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We talked for months. Go to the same school, but only went out a few times. Eventually one night we spent time cuddling on his couch watching TV. It got late so I spent the night. We cuddled all night. Fell asleep... woke up in the middle of the night and cuddled more... we both got turned on and we decided to have sex. It was great, and after we cuddled and slept in.

After that we didn't hangout again. We made plans and he kept canceling. One day he made a heartfelt apology. He has anxiety and trust issues and he's been in therapy for it. He told me he's worked hard and he's doing better and he's open to me staying over his house even if he has to leave to go to class early, etc. And he said he'll try to do better.

Then he cancels a few more times, but always seems to make time for "his boys". Then some girl starts popping up all over his social media. That was the last straw. He wasn't my boyfriend, so I'm not saying he couldn't see anyone else (turns out they weren't dating anyway she's a lesbian), but it pissed me off he had time for everyone but me. We stopped talking months ago.

Now he's back suddenly saying he misses me... I bet he just wants in my pants again... he's hot though and I kind of wouldn't mind it... but I'm still annoyed. I feel like because he was rude I should curb him...

What should I do?

Me and this guy we're like a relationship but not at the same time, we're pretty much past the 'talking' stage. We talk all the time, open up to each other, call each other baby, cuddle, etc. we've even had sex. Basically everything couples do but we don't call each boyfriend and girlfriend. He's even said before that I may not be his girlfriend but we're dating in his mind and he's called me his girl. I asked him why not date now, he says that he's scared, he was cheated on and treated bad in his past relationships so I understand why he's not so quick to date me. But whats the point of waiting, we're practically a relationship anyway so why wait to get to a point we're already at. So should I just formally ask him out, or wait till he stops being scared. by the way he has big trust issues, and doesn't like opening up.