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So, same guy as before from my last question (taken, with a girlfriend but he said he likes me and I like him but am happy to just be friends) wants to meet up at Six Flags. I would obvisouly bring a few friends and so would he. But is this werid since he has a "complicated" relationship with someone? I do find him easy on the eyes but he's giving off that player vibe. I am so confused still :( Any advice would be great. Thanks!

Sooo just to get to the point.. I met this Cuban guy who is 4 years younger than me... ( I'm Black) over a month and some weeks ago, and ever since we have text non-stop everyday.. We decided to get together just to hang out a feel each other vibe more, and I guess it worked out cause we still text each other all day everyday when we are not together.

For the past few weeks We have been together all day everyday (except for when I have to work or he does). I asked him why he is single (he told me stories about his Ex.. I guess she hurt him bad) He say's he just likes being single.. So to play it off I say I do too.. Don't have to answer to anyone and blah blah blah..

Well this past week, we have met each others families and him and my son take a huuuge liking to each other (like when they play video games or sports they're in the zone lol... I think its cute) He introduced me to most of his Family that lives here. He tells me that I am his Obligation (what does that even mean)

And even though he only been talking for 1.5 months when a crazy argument occurred with someone I knew (of no fault of my own) he soothed me and said he wasn't going anywhere.. We both talk about Friends of the opposite sex.. but last night he said "He doesn't see other women.. He doesn't pay them any mind" and thinks Im more beautiful without make-up and stuff. And we cuddle more than I am comfortable with as a "Friend" and lastly Im wary of acknowledging any feelings for him because he supposed to move back down South within the next month or 2...

Can someone help me decipher the mystery of the extremely gorgeous Cuban guy?

Okay, so there's this guy I know who messaged me on FB about a month ago. Friendly messages, but I ended up not messaging back after awhile.. Well he messaged me again about a week and a half ago. Long story, short he gave me his number and told me if I ever wanted to text him I could. SO I ended up texting him this past weekend, generally he's pretty peppy but he's a firefighter so really busy too.. He offered on Sunday for us to officially "meet" today. Well I don't know why I'm so caught up, but I messaged him and asked what he was up to, he told me he's sick 😑 now I'm feel like I'm getting blown off. He usually texts me first, but it's seems like I've been doing more of it the last couple days. I guess I'm just feeling the "need" to have someone to talk to. Although, I do kind of like him (in a friendly way) and he's made it obvious and told me he likes me, he's okay with the fact I have children (although I wouldn't let him meet them unless it just turned into more in time), he's a complementing gentlemen, makes me feel good and he's even told me he hopes I stick around.. Now the question is. What should I do? It's been so long since I've felt this unpredictable feeling, while trying not to let my vulnerable self get TOO caught up and I'm wondering if I should just stop texting him for a couple of days even if he texts me or what since when literally chat every day.. That way I don't put off the needy, obsessive girl vibe. He knows I'm not looking for anything and he said he wasn't either, but that's when he said at the same time he hoped I stuck around for awhile after talking to me and kind of getting to know more about me. He's been out of a relationship for a little over a year now and he's made comments like, "I hope I can be the good man you deserve" it just throws me off! 😁