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Well this guy and me have been hooking up he’s always giving mixed signals telling me he wants to be with me and me saying I do to. Him basically saying he loved me. He has serious trust issues and emotionally unavailable af. But despite that I see he’s struggling hard. He likes me I’m sure he does but I guess not enough. We work together md he decide to invite one of the girls he talks to visit him at work even though I didn’t know he talked to other girls. And he was smiling at me like it was funny. He always tries to make me jealous. So I went up to him after that and started getting emotional and said if he didn’t like me he didn’t have to lie and I started crying he called after my name and I ran in the bathroom. Me he came vigorously knocking on the door all concerned. Then I just was kinda mean to him and h said we aren’t going out which I cmt be mad he talks to her. That broke my heart because I swore he said he wanted to date me. He tried getting my attention but I didn’t give it to him. How should I act when I see him tomorrow? I mean icant be too mad because he’s right he isn’t my boyfriend but to do it in my face is mean.

We talked for months. Go to the same school, but only went out a few times. Eventually one night we spent time cuddling on his couch watching TV. It got late so I spent the night. We cuddled all night. Fell asleep... woke up in the middle of the night and cuddled more... we both got turned on and we decided to have sex. It was great, and after we cuddled and slept in.

After that we didn't hangout again. We made plans and he kept canceling. One day he made a heartfelt apology. He has anxiety and trust issues and he's been in therapy for it. He told me he's worked hard and he's doing better and he's open to me staying over his house even if he has to leave to go to class early, etc. And he said he'll try to do better.

Then he cancels a few more times, but always seems to make time for "his boys". Then some girl starts popping up all over his social media. That was the last straw. He wasn't my boyfriend, so I'm not saying he couldn't see anyone else (turns out they weren't dating anyway she's a lesbian), but it pissed me off he had time for everyone but me. We stopped talking months ago.

Now he's back suddenly saying he misses me... I bet he just wants in my pants again... he's hot though and I kind of wouldn't mind it... but I'm still annoyed. I feel like because he was rude I should curb him...

What should I do?

Me and this guy we're like a relationship but not at the same time, we're pretty much past the 'talking' stage. We talk all the time, open up to each other, call each other baby, cuddle, etc. we've even had sex. Basically everything couples do but we don't call each boyfriend and girlfriend. He's even said before that I may not be his girlfriend but we're dating in his mind and he's called me his girl. I asked him why not date now, he says that he's scared, he was cheated on and treated bad in his past relationships so I understand why he's not so quick to date me. But whats the point of waiting, we're practically a relationship anyway so why wait to get to a point we're already at. So should I just formally ask him out, or wait till he stops being scared. by the way he has big trust issues, and doesn't like opening up.