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Basically, in my city there's a high school facebook page for love letters, mainly for shitposting or actual love letters to people, as well as some self-advertisements and looking for> posts (basically high school tinder). I made a (anonymous for obvious reason) submission, posting about myself and what I was looking for. I got quite a few responses (comments/react if you're seriously interested) but there was only 1 girl who actually caught my attention. I have very little mutual friends with her (only 1 mutual friend who I actually properly know irl), but I thought she was beautiful (honestly is, won't leak her insta but quite popular as hell from what is seems). I went on her profile and we do have some common interests, but I also realize she's usually only hanging out with girls. I haven't messaged her yet because I was still thinking about it and I don't exactly have much to lose, but I want to know the best approach. Any tips on this? (I'm 17, she's turning 17 soon)

Personally, I'm "popular" but only to some extent (lots of people know me because I'm in a lot of social groups but they don't exactly know me very well). I think I'm a solid 7-8/10 in terms of looks and financially stable (for a high school student). What're your opinions on this, should I even bother trying?

So in the beginning of the school year their was this girl in math who I hated to the point where i just wouldn't go to that class for about a week, then just to piss her off when i came back id sit right next to her, and all of her stuff would be on the chair i didn't give a fuck i was trying to tic her off but then she started asking me for help on the math work, i gave her help i didn't really care and now me and her are friends i guess i mean i did get her something for her birthday (it was just a pencil) but hey it was something. Then she found out im in a band and we do gigs, so now she calls me famous its kinda cute and i think she's growing on me, but how do i know if im growing on her? me and her have been talking now on a good note for a few months so im just kinda confused on how i feel. i went to my mom and sister they said it sounds like she likes me, but who knows let me get your opinion on it

A recent experience with a girl made me re-think my life choices and how i should approach women or understand their words.

We knew each other for about 6 months and then dated for another 4 months, all was good and she wanted twice to know what are we and where are we heading, at first i was as confused as her, but the second time i told her i like her too and i feel that what we have can become something more serious, meaningful and bring us closer in a relationship, she nodded with agreement and seemed to like my words.

fast forward a little more than a month and she started drifting away till she finally broke up with me, she was really sweet and nice about it and told me iam not lacking in anyway but we are "Different" , i was nice and never tried hurting her or forcing her to stay , but thats not what made me confused... i thought i was advancing a bit too slow (even told her that i am taking things slowly ) but when she broke up with me she said that things happened too fast, scared her and she just didn't see the point in turning it into anything more serious according to her words... this is a girl who has been crushing on me (by her own words) for a year and a half and stalked me online, purused me to give her another chance when i thought she was uninterested and moved on , and when we dated admitted that she wants it to work out and she wants to be with and she has feelings with me... i shared the same feelings as her and made it clear i wanted her as much as she wanted me (Not in a needy clingy way, iam not like that ) ... yet she ended up leaving me...

p. s : iam a college student and pretty decent and smart and funny so not boring, also the intimacy was good