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My boyfriend and I have been together for exactly one year and eight months. We have had a lot of fun but I am starting to get bored in my relationship and their is this guy at my school. My boyfriend has just graduated last year and I am scared of making a impulsive decision by breaking up with my boyfriend. My mom doesn't like that my boyfriend is kind of a worry wort and scared of almost every bug. We have different religions and my mother does not like that. This new guy and I have the same religion and he is a manly man instead of a pretty boy like my boyfriend.
Since my boyfriend has graduated he has stayed kind of stalemated. He hasn't gotten his license yet or his diploma. but the other guy is at the college with me and has a license.
They both genuinely care about me yet i do not know what to do. My boyfriend and i have been through a lot and have always stuck through it. I have never been in a situation like this. HELP ME!!!

Pros
1. We love each other.
2. He wants to have a family.
3. He's a hard worker.
4. He trusts me.
5. He honors his parents.
6. He's faithful, and willing to commit. (We're engaged.)
7. He has good manners. (Opens the door for me, picks up the bill when we go out to eat.)
8. I can rely on him, and know he's always going to be there for me.
9. He is willing to protect me. (Says he would die for the people he loves.)
10. He loves animals and treats them with respect.

Cons
1. Doesn't want to stop sining. (Or even try to. He says he believes in God, and he's a Christian but does things and wants to do things that a Christian shouldn't do. Were unequally yoked. He never wants to read the Bible with me, go to church with me, or even pray for me.)
2. He always puts himself first. (We always have to do what he wants to do or we don't do anything at all.)
3. He is dishonest, and I have caught him in lies.
4. Wants to have sex with a guy.. I just found this out. (Says it's a one time experience just to try it.)
5. Wants to go to bars. (Says it's just while he's young. One time he stayed out all night and never came home till the next day so now I don't allow him to go to bars at all. Caught him one time after it and I know about a total of two times.)
6. Wants to watch another guy have sex with me. (I refuse, I was a virgin when I meet him and already feel guilty for not being married before hand. I believe you become one with the person you share that with and I'm not sharing myself with anyone else except who I love.)
7. Can be hurtful when he talks to me. (Calls me names or tunes me out when I'm talking to him.)
8. Throws things when he gets angry. (Has broken three of my phones in the past, put holes in the walls, and broke my back door. Still never replaced or fixed any of it. Plus other things.)
9. He disrespects my family.
10. We don't communicate as much. (He never calls or texts me anymore during the day when he used to all the time.)

My guy friend of 3 years has always been super attentive to me, sweet, devoted like a puppy. He is always as close to me as he can get and touches my upper arm, shoulders, lower back, lets his hand rest too long on mine if he hands me st, holds eye contact forever, has played with my hair, notices EVERY little thing about my appearance, has fed me off his spoon after he'd used it, presses his arms/thighs into mine when we sit side by side and he's said he loves me, just not romantically. We tease each other a LOT and he calls me "girl"/"woman" and pretends like he's mad. He wanted to buy me a gift for "putting up with" him. He told me recently that I've been his other fave person (besides gf) for two yrs. he's been with her 18 mos.

We've both been taken the whole time we've been friends but we have become emotionally intimate and it feels like more than just friends. We messaged and texted ALL summer and talked about everything under the sun, deep stuff, silly jokes, how he's bored with his gf and wants to be free this year to "kindle new flames". He's asked me about sexual things I might be into, like bdsm, hook ups with friends, 3ways, pd sex, but the racier the q, the more he plays it off like jk, wasn't REALLY asking! But he's told me he likes me boobs and complains that gf has a boys body. He's asked me to brush stuff off his butt and never moves away if I put my hand on his thigh or play his hair/stroke his face. He's shown every sign of liking me but won't make a move. He says he hates cheaters but aren't we already cheating emotionally? He said he couldn't take the shame of kissing another girl while he has a gf. He said he doesn't want to hurt her by breaking up bc she is so in love with him, much more than he is w/her. I'm getting sick of his wallowing in misery when he could just end it if he really is as unsatisfied as he says. I told him today that I think it's unrealistic to think one person could meet all your needs/desires. What should I do?