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Traditionally, I believe the "He's Just Not That Into You" theory. If a guy likes you, he'll make time to be with you. The question then becomes HOW MUCH TIME will that be? Should we be expected to swap daily constant texts etc. (which is a little over the top for me) or is the connection at the end of the week enough during the flirting/dating phase?

I don't like the borderline stalker who is always texting "where are you?" or the creepy fellow who doesn't know you at all but texts you "good morning"/"good night" with smoochy emoji daily... It's too much, especially with a new person you don't know well.

But what if a guy is busy all the time? I don't mean the "I can't talk, I'm busy" type, but the guy who has been single long enough that he doesn't actually cull out time to be on his own, relaxing, inactive with the potential to fill the gap with social activities or a relationship.

Which brings me to the fellow my friend is trying to set me up with. He's a nice guy and the 4S's -- smart, sweet, sexy, single -- which is great, but he's not ever really available. Even the time he makes to chat with ends with him getting caught up in business or between clients etc. A couple of times since we've met he's taken the time to meet with me, but always ends up being called to business by other people.

Is it worth the effort to be patient and see if he makes more of an effort?