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Would you forgive somebody for having an emotional affair? No sexual relation involved... Only feelings...

I was on medication that cause me to have seizures that caused me to pick at my body and sleep way more than usual... when I stopped the medicine my husbsnd had became a pathological liar, my daughter came to me about how she heard her dsddy talking bad about me, and I havevheard this from two of my other friends. I decided to wake him up and confront the issue, he jumped up and became all defensive called me crazy and said he was going to call the police... after I got outta jail he called me friends but a week after I gotvout we kept getting private phone calls and no one would answer me... he wasn't paying rent and hide my court papers along with eviction notices. we moved back into town and thats when my supposed friend started coming back around with gifts she never called my phone, just his... they both msde excuses to see eachother always 45 min or longer. He became protective of hervan ignored me... even when i tried to make love he would pushvme away. When I finally told my husband I thought he and my friend were having an affair, remember in this year all thos happened we weren't having sex. He would throw me in jail to shut me up... and our kids would be at there grandmothers while he was all alone.. he even asked me to take a week vacation after I told her i knew... and I told him im not that stupid to give you and your girlfriend time to work out your problem... so two days later he brought it up again and when i turned him down he called the cops an lied saying I hit him and won't let him sleep. Which was not true. This girl that was my best friend still three years later is driving past me calling me every name in the book. there was a time he would start a fight to leave to his mothers which was completely vacant, because his mother was staying the weekend at her boy friends. What do you think was going on? For the longest time I blamed it on the loss of his father seven months earlier that eventually made him take his angervout on me... any advice?