Search Results: he says things and then push me away

Men, would no contact after a break up make you think about your ex more?

What would you think if you had a break up and then your ex didn't contact you? Lets say you were unsure of the relationship and it was just given up on, but you still love them. If you were insecure would you move on...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have I pushed my ex away for good?

My ex was a bit of a lad when we got together, he was really scared of commitment and so it took about 4 months until we became official. Everything was great and we made it to the 6 month mark, he was even the first to...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Relationships

Could he be a sociopath? Should I contact his ex/my former friend and ask how he treated her? I feel like I need to know if he messed with her too?

A long term guy friend of mine dated one of my friends for almost a year. Things went sour. He came to me devastated & seeking comfort. He lead me to believe she asked for a break to sort out family stuff but really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, if you are constantly nagging and arguing with a guy but at the same time keep talking to him?

I know it may sound weird and thats why its confusing me. We dont really dislike each other, we just annoy each other and push each other buttons, which in turn can turn into a little fight or argument and getting annoyed...

Anonymous

(36-45)

So girls, if you dont like a guy (as a person)...why would you nag so much because he doesn't want to talk to you?

Im trying to figure this out. She is very outspoken about how annoying i am and not liking me, to where its obvious i should believe it. I mean, we get along and everything but we just seem to engage into arguments too...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Her emotions are all over the place. Should I just hang in there?

My friend was dumped a month ago by her BF.I know she has kept me around as a "back up".She would call me when things were not going well (usually once a week, but sometimes they could go a couple weeks with no issues)....

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

We have been getting really close, then she disappears...?

She and her BF split a little over a month ago. She went away overseas on a business trip for 3 weeks. She called me once while she was there and said she wished I was there. She gets back and because we live kind of...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Dating

I completely screwed it up with this guy. What do I do? Pleasepleaseplease read this?

I met this guy a couple months ago and I really like him. He used to talk to me all the time and flirt with me and ten I think I got kind of obsessive and pushed him away. He hasn't been talking to me hardly at all and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Why did my ex behave in such a bizarre way, is he insane or a player?

I've been hurt by your ex. He told you the most beautiful words in the world yet he didn't act upon those words. He treated me so badly even though he told me how much he cared, how much he loved me and thought i was the...

Shannon18

Xper 5 Age: 33

Society & Politics

I push guys away that I like and feel relieved when they leave but hurt at the same time. What's wrong with me?

Okay so im 18 and I never been in a actual relationship before. I push guys away and I wanna say on accident but I think some of its on purpose to.. not because I didn't like the guys that previously had shown interest...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she stringing me along? Or baiting me to keep as a backup?

We met in December 2012 at work, she left the job in June 2013. She seemed interested, but had a boyfriend. After she left the job she maintained contact with me. She would call me once a week to "catch up" and...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Girl I have a crush on is "flirting" with me but has boyfriend?

So to start off we met in Chemistry class (this school year) and I had no idea who this girl was until I was put next to her. It took a week or two for us to hit it off and to talk and get to know each other. But after...

Ruschnav

Xper 6 Age: 31

Dating

Do I text him first? I dont want to push him away anymore than i already have?

A boy and I are very much interested with each other and exclusive but there is no title and i know all about his ex who has a lot of issues. The other day the ex tried to killer herself and he was being honest and...

emalice1234

Xper 5 Age: 32

His body language? What should I look for next time?

So this guy is very loud around everyone and with everyone except me but he's the class clown and is always ready to volunteer for stuff, etc. But i have noticed he is very private about his feelings and love life. With...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Says I make him happy and then pushes me away?

I've been dating a guy for a few months now. In the beginning, he said he didn't want to be someone's boyfriend right now. A few weeks later, he declared that we are dating. Everything has been going really well. He asks...

Anonymous

(36-45)

cheating boyfriend that is not sorry about it!?

Hi Everyone! I really need help ASAP! I am in my late 30's and my boyfriend is in his late 40's. we were in a committed relationship. But recently he had slept with his ex gf. That he broke up already she was a bad person...

diamondlady

Xper 4 Age: 50

Relationships

How do i get him to like me and not his ex? I need to play this player! Help?

Alright, well in all honesty, this guy is a player. I want him to like me so i can play him and break his heart like he has done to so many other girls. While he was with his girlfriend he would flirt with me and other...

Socialbutterfly

Xper 4 Age: 28

Dating

(GUYS) in this case would you rather a girl stick around or let go for awhile til your ready for something serious?

Me & my ex were dating for about 5 or 6 months. We broke up a couple times course the second time we didn't try again. Well we stopped dating in September 2013 & here it is march 2014 that were still seeing each other...

hopromantic

Xper 7 Age: 33