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For some reason that i still dont understand I end up having more female friends than guy friends. Im in no way Gay. (Not that is bad to be gay, im just clarifying i am not gay. Cause i respect all genders) i dated my ex girlfriend for 5 years by the way.

My 2 best friends that i always hang out wit are women and sometimes they bring their friends and those friends bring their friends and it ends up bein like 6 women and 1 guy. So most of my pictures that i have in social media im in between a bunch of women. But i actually dont hook up wit any of those because they're taken or they dont want a guy at the moment.

If you saw my pictures or you always saw me at a bar with a bunch of women would you think im a player?

Hello Everyone,
My ex-girlfriend who dumped me contacted me after a breif no contact period by asking about a wine picture I posted on snapchat and then we texted back and forth and then she said she is willing to hangout ( she have a male guy with her with whom she got with in 3 weeks of break up and refers him as a friend). I said her we will hangout but never propsed any date.
Recently I propsed a date and she said yes, since then we have been texting each other. Some times she is hot and sometime she is warm. Sometime she tells me she is in her pjs, sometime she is watching a chickflick.

Few days ago she asked me that she is trying to figure out what i want out of this hangout, and I said I am not trying to get any thing out of this. She said she want me to know that she is not goung to listen to old stuff and this is the 3 time she brought past back I always tell her let it be past.

I just want to start it fresh and I hope it leads towards re attracting her.

My questions with all friends here is that
1. When she is having a male friend and who she hooked up before she dated me, then why she is willing to hangout with me.
2. When she proposed me to hangout then when she is bringing past back

3. I have planned a cordial lunch, since its snowing here we can't walk around area but after lunch I will take her for bowling. ( any other suggestions to keep our first hangout very light)

I really want to get back with her and want to spend rest of life with her. But athis moment I am just going to meet her as a friend thats all and I am not trying to get her back on first hangout

Please Please friends help me to read through lines here please. I beg every one on this site