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Is this girl interested in me? How do I let her know I am when I can't tell her in person?

Alright so I met this girl ( R) the first day of class in college and we sat with each other every class and I walked with her to the dorms we lived at after every class because she lived in the same building. I was...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Guys, why are you so confusing?!

I thought this guy liked me because he was so eager to hang out after I got back from vacation. He took me grocery shopping with him after he got off work the day I got back (not a date, but we're just friends. I think.)...

LoveMaeRae

Xper 5 Age: 37

Guy's Behavior

Scared of never having a girlfriend...

Next year I will be 30, this scares me a lot, why? well because I live a life without any thing to do. Last time I thought life resembled anything of the norm, I was 9 years old, I was content, without a care in the...

Anonymous

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Flirting

I told my ex I still like him and he said....?!

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me last Fall because he said he was confused and was moving way too fast (and he was). We continued to hang out as friends because we always got along really well, and still liked each...

RRSB2

Xper 5 Age: 39

Family & Friends

[Guy friend troubles] It's a strange way of saying "I'm supposed to love you".

I met this guy in my Senior English class about a year and 1/2 ago now and I only feel friendship towards him. But I'm not so sure that's all he feels for me. He and I had a friendly bake-off to see who made the best...

totallychaotic

Xper 3 Age: 35

Flirting

Guys: what is going through his head?

First of all, let me make it clear that yes, he's a GOOD guy. He's 30 years old and very successful. Not young and stupid. Not trying to get in my pants. This much is certain, trust me he's one of the few good ones....

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Can guys and girls be friends if they like each other?

Can a married man and a married woman be friends if there is an attraction to each other? Is it possible to keep it platonic?

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

I think I've finally come to admit that I may actually be in love with my best friend. Advice please!

So. I think I've finally come to admit that I may actually be in love with my best friend. For the past couple of months, I'd been trying to ignore his subtle advances, his coy remarks about him wanting to be with me....

missmjk7

Xper 5 Age: 37

Flirting

Just got sent back to the start.

So I've been trying to find out what is this girls deal. She is in my class (college) and we have been talking to each other since the start. I catch her always staring at me, and when I catch her she'll either keep...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why do you act this way?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Is she still interested or were we just friends?

Anonymous

(36-45)

We met a month back in music app. class (college). Right off the bat we kicked it off, but I found out she had broke up with her Boyfriend a week b4 we met. She started to show more

We met a month back in music app. class (college). Right off the bat we kicked it off, but I found out she had broke up with her Boyfriend a week b4 we met.

She started to show more signs of interest and ended up suggesting that we do things together and gave me her number to call her any time. She would always smile and say hi to me to get my attention when she came into class, cause I'll usually be talkin to someone. Good body language and Great eye contact. Her and her friend sit next to me, and we get a long great, flirt and tease each other all the time.

Well I've had friends that are girls that act very flirty and usually break the touch barrier with me all the time. So now I'm not sure whether or not she is just being friendly and like some of the girls I know or is trully interested.

What makes me assume she has lost interest or jst wanted to be friends is because since I have had her number I've been the one to text or call her. She will answer or respnde to my texts right away, but we haven't really hung out, out of class.

We had lunch once back 3 weeks ago. I'm busy myself with school and work so its hard for me to have time and she has work and school as well. But I think the major thing that makes me think she is being platonic and not interested is that she has yet to initiate contact with me outside of class. Like she has yet to text or call me out of the blue.

I have tried to make plans with her, for example one day I told her we should grab lunch sometime on Friday she said yea that sounds good but I gave her a call on Friday and no answer. She texted me later that night saying she was sorry for missing my call and that we should do something tonight problem was I was already out somewhere.

I also tried to get lunch with her last week after class and she was like yea sure but then I get a call 7 min later saying well idnt think I can now, I'm probably going to get it to go. So now I haven't texted her or called her at all since she has canceled that lunch. And today we sat away from each other same row but had a seat empty, but she did the same thing said hi to get my attention and smile. Asked me about my weekend so on.

Now I think I'm just over the whole entire thing, like I understand the male is supposed to initate the plans since we just met but she hasn;t done nything to keep me on my toes, IE. texted or called me no effort it seems on her part.

Watt do you gals think I should do?

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Guy's Behavior

Is she still interested or just wants to keep it friends?

Anonymous

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We met a month back in music app. class (college). Right off the bat we kicked it off, but I found out she had broke up with her Boyfriend a week b4 we met. She started to show

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Flirting

Should I ignore this guy? or not??

a while back my mom thought I should meet a fella she knows from work.i did want a platonic male friend nothing romantic though.he and I started keeping in touch by email regularly and things seemed to be going well.after...

Anonymous

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Guy's Behavior

Was he clueless or just comfortable around me?

So I'm with my male friend that I've posted before about and we're goofing off and etc. and we start messing with each other, play fighting, wrestling around and etc and at one point he was on his back and I was sitting...

obligations

Explorer Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

Does my best friend like me??

missmjk7

Xper 5 Age: 37

Alright, so there's this guy. I've known him since like, 1st grade, and we've been best friends ever since. And, growing up, I know he's had minor little crushes on me. But we went to

Alright, so there's this guy. I've known him since like, 1st grade, and we've been best friends ever since. And, growing up, I know he's had minor little crushes on me.

But we went to different high schools, and drifted just a little, but we remained friends, and now in our college years we're still as close as ever. I go to him about every guy and/or hookup I have. He comes to me with the same issues he may have with girls. He's just the greatest guy, and I love our friendship and I love him, as my best friend.

Well, these past couple months have been kinda strange with him.

Like, I've been noticing that he's there for me for EVERYTHING. Not that its bad, but I mean, he'll drop whatever he's doing to do whatever I ask of him. Like, I can call him at like 4am, drunk, and across town, and ask him to pick me up and take me home, and he'll do it. Doesn't matter if he's sleeping, or with his friends, he just does tons of super sweet things for me. And I just thought, hey, he's my friend and he really cares about me.

But lately.

I've been hearing from his friends that they think he's in love with me. And that he has been for a long time.

And I don't know what to believe, but lately, when him and I text, he's been asking me questions like,

"Am I boyfriend material?"

"Could you ever see us together?"

"Do you think you could see yourself hooking up with me?"

"What would you say if I told you I liked you?

and telling me stuff like.

"You're the only girl that means something to me."

"You're the only girl who gets me."

"I hate seeing you with all these asshole guys who don't know a fraction about you like I do."

"I'd never treat you like anyone less than extraordinary."

And every time I go out to party, he'll text or call me to see if I've been drinking, and to see if I make it home okay. And if he doesn't hear from me, he always asks me if I hooked up with anyone.

I don't know what to think about him anymore. He keeps bringing up us "getting together" but very subtly, and when I tell him I love him as my best friend, and that my feelings for him are platonic, he says, "oh ya that's how I feel too."

And, I know if him and I got together, it'd be a good thing. He's the best guy I know. But I've never seen him as more than a friend, and I'm not willing to risk what we have now. And I've told him, maybe in a couple years or in the future I'll see him that way. But as of right now, I like it just how we are.

But I don't know what to make of this situation?

What do you think?

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Flirting

What do I say to him so that we can have sex?

Character Analysis: He is a christian and cares deeply about the welfare of every stranger that he meets because the bible says "love your enemies" and he does just that however he thinks pre-marital sex is...

Anonymous

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Flirting

What is he really feeling? what should I do?

i have this guy friend, whom I've recently gotten close to again. We dated once before back in February, but ended in March due to the fact I didn't like him that way. He moved on to another girl immedately after. I...

lilpeanut23

Xper 5 Age: 38

Family & Friends

I had sex with my best friend's frat brother now he hates me... Why??!

I have been best friends with a boy since I was in the 4th grade. Now that we've spent years getting to know each other, and become inseparable, I can honestly say that I love him. No, I'm in love with him. We've kept...

ooohlalala

Xper 5 Age: 39

Relationships

What exactly did I do wrong, and how do I fix it?

Last night I was carrying on two text conversations with two different people: one was a girl, a good friend of mine. We met at college last year and I, essentially, fell in love with her. Throughout the year, I asked her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Men, Stop Pretending To Want Friendship If You Want More!

I encountered an article on good old GirlsAskGuys that frankly pissed me off a bit, and felt I had to counter respond. The article seemed to indicate that if a guy is friends with a girl then she should automatically...

A-R-Norman

Xper 7 Age: 56

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