Search Results: not get feelings after sex

Seperating sexual attraction and feelings, why?

Is it possible to not be able to fall in love but have sexual attraction for them or the other way around? I think I am unable to feel sexual attraction for people I care about, have sympathethic feelings for. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why is he so hurt if he doesn't love me?

I liked a guy who did not want to date but wanted sex. We had sex while he messed around with other women. I had genuine feelings for him and I wanted a relationship. We thought about dating but he met this one girl that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Was this a real or not: Guys be honest and be real?

Long story short Met this guy online. We talked for 2 months non stop. Sent each other money and gifts because we wanted to. He joked about seeing me after endless Skype dates and chatting. He did come to visit. He...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

How can I deal with a gal who rejected me but won't leave me alone?

This girl is just perfect for me. I love her very much. First day we met, we exchanged lines, we talked on phone and I proposed. She rejected me. I let her be, moved on. Later she called, flirted again and my feelings for...

Vac0003

Xper 3 Age: 31

Am I being an idiot?

I was seeing this guy casually since August last year but I broke it off a couple of months ago because he 'couldnt commit to anything right now' even though we were practically a couple. I said thats fine but I dont want...

personontheinternet2

Xper 5 Age: 28

Does he just know what to say?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

So... what's the deal with me and this stripper?

I know, I know. I shouldn't go into a strip club looking for a love connection, but what can I say? The guy can't help it, lol. But seriously, I started talking to this dancer in July and have been talking to her...

jurassicman87

Xper 4 Age: 39

My boyfriend and I broke up and saw other people but he wants to be friends with the girl he slept with?

My boyfriend and I broke up for about three months, he had a rebound and I got a new boyfriend. I politely let my then ex down gently and got back with my current boyfriend. I’m no longer in contact with my ex because it...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is a 15 year age gap too much to have in a relationship (40 years vs 25 yrs)? If not how can I make the relationship work out as best as possible?

Firstly I'm a 40 year old divorced woman. I met a 25 year old guy a few months ago at the children's center we both volunteer at. Our relationship went from flirting soon after meeting to a non-committal fling where we'd...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Will he use me to get what he wants?

So before I start , I’m not a bitter ex and I’ve even texted my ex after our breakup to try and work things out and he was a good boyfriend while we were together. It was no hard feelings at first but ever since we...

Anonymous

(18-24)

My boyfriend slept with his girl mate and now is insisting they are just friends?

My boyfriend has known this girl for ten years. They slept together before and she cheated on her husband with him. (Apparently because he was cheating with the nanny). They remained in contact and then a few years ago I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He's not looking for a relationship?

I've been "seeing" this guy for around 4 months now. He's in his first year at uni (he's just 20) and I'm 18, on a gap year. We've gotten pretty close over the last 4 months and have met up quite a lot. He's come to see...

samiñeda99

Xper 4 Age: 27

Girl's Behavior

Is she playing mind games or did I mess up?

Well me and my ex broke up 1year and half ago and lost contact. We rekindle after year. We would talk on and off. We would go three months without texting each other. Until she would text me or I’ll text her. she would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Losing my virginity, Next time should I be so trusting with someone I thought cared about me or be more alert and worry more?

I used to be a virgin until me and my ex had sex now I wasn't really ok with it but it was what I thought would make her happy in the process I broke my one rule "never have sex with someone unless you can trust them and...

Redeemer26

Xper 4 Age: 24

How to stop feeling bad after having sex/participating in sexual activities?

I tend to be upset after having sex. Im the moment I love every bit of it , and I love turning him on. but when we’re done and he drives me home I began to cry. i guess because I expect more from him then what he gives me...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Are first "loves" meant to serve as a lesson?

So for those of you who are not virgins anymore and are no longer with those guys, how do you get over them? And if we're not meant to be with these guys who took our virginity, then were they meant to serve as a lesson...

lenlenxyz

Xper 5 Age: 31

What type of guy would you say my boyfriend is?

When we first met he would buy me gifts in return to get intimate or if we got into arguments, listeed to me , cared about me , took me places and I would spend on him as much as I can too. However I didn't want to...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Slept with my co worker, now I need help to understand his mixed signals?

Okay so I work with this guy who I'll be honest, I wasn't immediately smitten with... mainly because he had a girlfriend when I started at the company... they broke up last summer and somewhere along the way we got...

flowerchild8877

Xper 3 Age: 30