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So long story short, I’ve still been seeing my ex that dumped me a few months back. We both have an agreement that we will both be honest if we have sex with others. Anyways so I’m at his house while he’s at work, and I noticed he folded my clothes I had left for me. I’m going through them and see underwear in the pile that don’t look familiar. They’re my size and from the store I buy mine from, but don’t look like they’re mine at all. now I get he’s single, we can do whatever I’m just like ok wtf. I asked him about it and he said that he found them at the bottom of his hamper, clean. (They are) He does share a laundry unit with his neighbors so he blamed it on that if they weren’t mine.

my thing is, if he slept with someone wouldn’t he know that the underwear was theirs and not put them in a pile of MY clothes? Could this just be a mistake? they might even be mine

I met this guy in high school about 15 years ago. He was too scared to really date me, because I am taller by about 4 inches, loved to wear heels, and am much hotter than him. He thought his friends might laugh at him. He kept thinking what would they think seeing an ugly dwarf next to a tall, hot, supermodel? He flirted pretty heavily though. Years later he messaged me on Facebook. He apologized for being an idiot and wanted to try things out. We were together off and on for 3 years, and he still ended up being hung up on how I looked next to him. He kept whining about how he wished he could marry me, but he just didn't feel like he was good enough or something.

I got sick of it, moved on to someone else, last time he came onto me in that way I told him that he sucked in bed and relied on his nice penis too much with not enough of anything else. Anyways, it hit home and he left me along for about 2 years. He met a short, very fat, sickly, ugly girl. I'm only a little shallow, but she's outside of my comfort range. He married her 2 years after he met her.

Here's where it gets weird! He started messaging me while they were still newly weds! I just can't comprehend why after 2 years of not speaking. They got married just over a year ago, and he randomly sends a wave, a hi, a how are you doing every couple of months. He's also mentioned that we should hang out. I can't imagine why when he's a newlywed.

We are in the same college now. He saw me today and seemed way too intimate int he way he said hi and hugged me a bit too long twice, and asked me to message him.

Does this seem like normal behavior, or does it seem like unresolved feelings and some sort of hang up? I have lots of male friends, and this seems abnormal.