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- you and your ex been together for 1 and a half years together
- this is both your longest relationship
- you guys fight a lot so you decide to break it off but you still love her/him
- so you still want to remain in contact regularly and try to see your ex every week as just "friends"
- its been 4 months and your ex finally told you that they still wanna be with you but you think its not the right time to get back together
- you are not seeing any other girls/guys except your ex since you're just mainly focusing on your career
- then you found out that your ex has been seeing someone else
- you are hurt by this so you decide to move on and cut contact with your ex
- then few days later, your ex sends you a long message expressing their love for you and that they only want you and so they broke things off with that other person to be with you

Would you take your ex back?
Or not?

Ok i tell my on and off again boyfriend that I'm done I am walking. I can tell he either doesn't believe me or he doesn't wanna deal with me. I then run to this friend of mine that has been crazy about me for a year and tell him I'm done and i want to be with him. He in returns says its too late and that he is going to try dating this girl. He can't miss another opportunity if I'm not really done with my boyfriend. I cried like a baby when i found out. Then I calmed myself down and i said to him after your done with trying with her, ill be through my break up and a better version of me and then I'm coming to get you. He laughed and he wasn't opposed to the idea but he is still hurt it took me a year to figure this out. But my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years and I just couldn't even consider my friend until i knew I was done and I have been trying and etc the last 6 months has been checked out. SO now i know how my friend feels bc for once he finally said no to me and i had been saying no to him for a year. I just wish i hadn't been so stupid. Now i have two options walk and maybe find someone else or maybe get my friend back. Or give my ex another chance.

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you and recent ex broke up few months ago
- it was your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future and trying to make things work
- you are not seeing anyone else
- then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything
- you told them that you loved them and wish them happiness and told them you're happy for them that they found someone else

If your ex decides to send you a long love message few days later.. saying that they still love you and not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you reconsider taking them back or move on?

Just say you are in this scenario:
- you were together with someone for more than a year
- its your longest relationship
- after you guys broke up, you guys still keep in contact regularly and still hang out every week
- deep down, you still love your ex and secretly hope you guys get back together in the future
- you are not seeing anyone else
- but then recently you found out your ex has been seeing someone else
- you're hurt by this and decide to cut contact with your ex and block your ex from everything

If your ex decides to send you a long love message saying that they still love you and actually not serious with that person theyre seeing.. through their friend's phone, would you:
- read it and reply?
- read it and not reply?
- ignore it?