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I (29 years old) have been dating a guy (35years old) that I know from tinder for almost 2 months now. We get along with each other quite well. We went out almost every weekend and sometimes we also see each other once during workdays. I feel connected to him most of the time. However, maybe it is because we know each other from tinder, I find it is very difficult to build trust with him. I know he is still active on tinder (at least someone is still talking to him). Neither of us discussed about deleting tinder but I did ask him if we still see other people, he said no. After that, i haven’t initiated the “where are we” conversation yet. Although we went out, he never posted any pic of us on social media, he posted lots of places we went to together.

Since he lives in my country due to work, last night, he asked if it is possible that I leave my country. I said I am open to any options, and asked him why he ask this question. He said he cannot see himself in my country forever. I am confused now, we don’t even have the relationship talk yet, but now he is asking me this?

What does this mean? Maybe he is not serious, or was he implying he doesn’t want anything too serious as he will go back anyway?

i am not saying I am ready to marry this guy, but I would like to have a relationship with him.

I met this guy on June 2018. I felt in love fast to him and I know we had sex too soon. We had a relationship with this person, however after weeks he comes to confess that he has a girlfriend previously than me. I get mad because I thought I was the only one and we had sex & even gave my virginity to him. I let him choose but he did not choose me first but his girlfriend. He wants to let me wait for a month to break up his girlfriend. But I did not believe him after he told me that he still loves his girlfriend so much. I deleted our mobile contract and even unfriended him on social media but never blocked him.
its been almost 3 months and 1 week since we have not talk with each other.

We happened to met one of his friend and she told me he recently went back together with his ex girlfriend and warned me not to meet or talk to him again ever. He was just using me for sex.
i don’t know why her friend treated me that way , when in fact I also become his girlfriend.

But honest speaking , I miss him and I tried meeting someone new but still I can’t get off him in my mind. I want to communicate but I am afraid he already moved on or might as well her friend is right that he was only using me for sex.

Few months from now , I was given an opportunity to live in another country. And maybe that would be the time that I should forever forget him.

i am so confused if I should talk to him again or not. Or I should wait for him to communicate , since we know at the first place it was his mistake.

whats on my mind right now is to wait for him to communicate first in order to be safe. But if he never communicates again , then maybe I should forget him already