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So I was speaking to this person earlier today, and he was telling me that all his friends who have made it big, and I mean real big, like multi-millionaire asset big, have all been divorced or are still single. The reason being the hours of slogging at work thus little to no time for anything else.

So my question to anyone out there is that, would you choose the amazing career? or just one that allows you to make enough to just cruise through life?

And just to be clear, the career choice does not mean that you are single, it just represents you having an amazing career but no time for your family or loved ones (while being filthy rich). While the other choice allows you to have a proper work-life balance but you will be unable to indulge yourself in luxury.

Okay so there's a lot to jam in here so let's get started
- Met Freshman Yr
- Dropped out and moved after 5 months
- Got her number before I left and kept in touch
- Stopped talking for awhile but she got things started up again with a text I got around 2-3 am
- Spent the following 3-4 years texting what felt like almost everyday
- One Valentine's we were texting and she told me "You know me so well"
- Didn't think much of it and dismissed it by saying I have a great memory (I Do)
- I supported her career choice and always told her i'd be there when she makes it
- She's known I liked her but its never been awkward or got in the way of our friendship
- Really got to know her over time or at least I hope I did.
- Started opening up to her when my grandma passed away this past September
- Neither of us were ever looking for a relationship and still aren't
- She started trusting me more even asking my opinion on a few pictures (Slightly Big deal since she's a REALLY Shy girl)
- Always supported her when she struggled with her shyness but neither of us ever talked about our problems it was always more of a good luck I know you can do it type of thing
- This past year has been the rockiest with a lot of personal things going on in my life and my chase for success. Thats when I started questioning our friendship
- First time we worked through it
- Second time was bad timing with my personal problems. Told her we should end it because its as if were only friends to kill time

A lot more I can put in here but not enough space. I need to know:

- If this can be fixed
- How can I show or say I'm sorry showing I really mean it (already apologized)
- Should I just give it time?

She's a great girl with a big heart. I hate the fact I said hurtful things to her after her being such a sweet girl this whole time.
I just want her to know I'm sorry, and that I'd really like to have her friendship again :/
Where is thus friendship at and where's it going