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After my mom died my grandma was convinced my mom came to her in a dream. I didn't believe that it was anything more than a dream. After all, why would she go to my grandma who was physically and mentally abusive to her growing up? Why wouldn't she come to my dreams and let me know she's fine? Then my son's dad died. My son's dad was remarried at the time to a women he had known for 6 months. My ex and I decided justen would be happier in the city going to school and living there then he would have been in the rural desert where I live. So when his dad died I of course went to get him. My son's step mom said he could still live with her without even asking me if it was ok. She told him she raised 5 kids and two loved her more than their own parents. And because of her manipulation and him not wanting to change schools or leave the house he last had his dad, he was angry with me for telling him he had to come with me. I felt horrible about it but I'm his mom. Plus she wouldn't let me know who she was. So to me she was just a strange woman my ex brought into his life. How was I gonna trust she would take care of him. Anyway after he moved in with me she told him to keep a secret from me that she was filing for temporary gaurdianship so she could keep my son. She told my son to lie to his mom. The court denied it of course because she couldn't prove that I wasn't able to take care of him. But with him upset at me I was breaking down. It killed me that my son was acting as if I was the bad person destroying his life. One day I started to consider letting him stay with her during the week for school and me on weekend. It was breaking my heart but I wanted him to be happy. He has been through enough coping with his dad being gone. I fell asleep crying and I had a dream with my ex's family and my family. It was like my ex's celebration of life. My ex stood there looking at me so peaceful and it was like he wanted me to know I was doing the right thing taking my son home.

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we were together for 1 and a half years
Its both our longest relationship
He wanted to focus on pursuing his dream job so he can't give me 100% commitment, time and attention anymore so he had to let me go
But he still wants to remain friends
We didn't talk much during the first week of the break up other than him messaging me to apologize to me
He asked me out on valentines day to the movies and for dinner and he also bought me bouquet of flowers that day
Ever since that day, he has been contacting me more often via facebook messaging
Then yesterday night, he asked me if he could call me and I said "yeah" coz I thought he had something important to tell me
So he called me straight away
And then we had a 20 minute conversation
He was asking how Im doing, my job, my weekend plans, what I've been upto
And then he was talking about his job and about the career he's pursuing right now and his future plans about it
And then he kept asking me "have u been on going dates? Tell me. I dont care"
And I would just try to avoid that topic because I have been going on dates but Im not gonna tell him that
And then he kept asking me "tell me how many dates youve been on? Are u going on dates this weekend? Just tell me.. i dont care. And I know how you are. you're not like me. All I do is go to work, come home, eat, sleep and then gym and then home again. I know you go out everyday. But if u are going on dates, good luck. Hope u find a guy that can deal with your craziness"
Like why does he keep asking me if im going on dates?
If he doesn't care, then why keep asking and saying all of this?
And why would he randomly want to call me? He wants to see how im doing?
I still have feelings for him and dont wanna lose him but im just frustrated on what he wants!
Do you guys think he lost romantic feelings for me?
Does he really not care that im dating other guys/going on dates?

So me and my ex boyfriend broke up 3 weeks ago and we were together for 1 and a half years
Its both our longest relationship
He wanted to focus on pursuing his dream job so he can't give me 100% commitment, time and attention anymore so he had to let me go
But he still wants to remain friends
We didn't talk much during the first week of the break up other than him messaging me to apologize to me
He asked me out on valentines day to the movies and for dinner and he also bought me bouquet of flowers that day
Ever since that day, he has been contacting me more often via facebook messaging
Then yesterday night, he asked me if he could call me and I said "yeah" coz I thought he had something important to tell me
So he called me straight away
And then we had a 20 minute conversation
He was asking how Im doing, my job, my weekend plans, what I've been upto
And then he was talking about his job and about the career he's pursuing right now and his future plans about it
And then he kept asking me "have u been on going dates? Tell me. I dont care"
And I would just try to avoid that topic because I have been going on dates but Im not gonna tell him that
And then he kept asking me "tell me how many dates youve been on? Are u going on dates this weekend? Just tell me.. i dont care. And I know how you are. you're not like me. All I do is go to work, come home, eat, sleep and then gym and then home again. I know you go out everyday. But if u are going on dates, good luck. Hope u find a guy that can deal with your craziness"
Like why does he keep asking me if im going on dates?
If he doesn't care, then why keep asking and saying all of this?
And why would he randomly want to call me? He wants to see how im doing?
I still have feelings for him and dont wanna lose him but im just frustrated on what he wants!
Do you guys think he lost romantic feelings for me?