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I’ve been texting this guy for about 2 months now. We were coworkers for 4 years before this and we started texting after he left 2 months ago.

He texts me 5 days a week, always starting the conversation (I’ve done it on a few occasions) with a “good morning hope you have a good day today” and once I wake up I respond and we talk for hours and hours. He’s stated that he likes talking to me, he enjoys my company and that seeing a reply from me always makes him happy. He’s super caring and attentive towards me and goes out of his way to make sure I’m happy. With our conversations we’re always joking around and looking out for each other too.
The thing is, he has a girlfriend that he never mentions to me, even though I know about her and I don’t plan on being a home wrecker either.

So I’m currently quarantining at my boyfriend’s house. His parents divorced about 5 years ago and in the house is just him, his dad, and his two brothers. So all boys. The only two females in the house are me and the older bro’s girlfriend who is also quarantining with us. The younger brother’s girlfriend stays over, but not often.

For some reason, the father has the habit of using the bathroom with the door wide open. Peeing, pooping or showering. He’ll do it with the door open and if he hears footsteps he will yell ‘occupied’ before you reach the door. I’ve luckily never seen him in the bathroom, but the older girlfriend in the house has since she’s lived here longer. The younger girlfriend who visits finds its funny. When I mention to my boyfriend that the door is open he just shrugs and says ‘it’s been 5 years like this, he isn’t gonna stop.’

Do you find this creepy? Or weird? Or just a bad habit?

He was a 28 year-old virgin at the time. I didn't know it till days before we had sex. He admitted it. I was then 26 and didn't mind too much. It's been nearly 5 years now but sometimes think about it. I wonder if it I had some blame.

Our relationship lasted for 15 until he started cheated. He cheated with 3 women and I dumped him. However, was it my fault for being involved with an older virgin... the oldest one for me? He never got to really experience and maybe a relationship might have been overwhelming to him or he probably didn't know how to handle it.

The latest I heard is he's a mess and has been in short, unstable relationships.

Met a guy we became close friends and confidants, we were open with almost everything he had a girlfriend I had a boyfriend and as a result we remained just friends for 3 of his relationships

We were friends for 3 years before we started dating.. we’ve been together 2 years now and in my head everything has been perfect and that’s what scared me

Together for 2 years and we’ve had no fights or real arguments we get along extremely well so I’ve had no idea what he’s like during argument-day
He’s the quiet responsible type who doesn’t really have a social life outside of our relationship

He got a job in another state and we’ve agreed he’d work there 1 year. Even being far away we were in constant contact, he always sent me money and we took trips together when he got time off

A female facebooked me telling me they’ve been in a relationship in that state since he went there and she had no idea about me

After being caught he’s been apologizing since and trying to make it up to me saying it was the pressure and distance, bear in mind I’m giving him such a hard time but I always need my questions answered to understand why

Besides the cheating i never felt neglected while he was there I’m so torn and don’t know what to do

Since the day the woman messaged me she hasn’t done so anymore. She approached me saying “OUR boyfriend is a cheater” and she seems hurt that he wants to make it work with me and not her. He says he’s completely cut contact with her and I believe it because I believe she would come and tell me as she seems to want to be in competition with me

Should I give him another chance or is he going to do it again? He says he will be coming home for good when he is able to travel again.