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There’s a shy guy at work that only works part time because he’s also going to school. He doesn’t really talk to many people at work. We both give each other mixed signals. I overheard him about a month ago telling another guy at work that he likes me (I think) and they were both looking at me. He holds doors open for me even when I’m far away, he helps take my section at work but not other girls, he’s teased me in the past when other people weren’t around, he goes out of his way to get things for me, he sits near me at lunch (1 seat apart) or hell sometimes he will take my seat and I’ll go that was my seat and he will start laughing and go oh I thought it was mine. When it’s the two of us talking it’s kinda awkward lol. Oh yesterday I teased him because he went to grab a pile of plates to stack and I grabbed them from him and said what’s the password and his face got as red as a tomato and then I gave him the stack. He also made a mess all over the counter and sink with bubbles and I was like laughing and was like do you always make a mess doing this and he’s like yes. But sometimes we will avoid each other and not even look at each other or walk fast away from each other or act super nervous around each other. Or I don't know lol. It’s off and on. He’s never had a girlfriend either or really showed an interest in girls according to my coworkers and they are surprised. They thought he was an asexual weirdo. I tried messaging him on twitter last night but he hasn’t been online. I don’t know what to make of this. He also suggested that I should come into work on Sunday even though I’m not scheduled (he is) and work won’t pay me overtime. Sometimes we leave work together and sometimes he leaves before me. We’ve been doing this since September. He hasn’t asked me out ( probably because he’s super busy with school or scared too or idk) weird. Hmm. I don't know

I have known this guy for 2 years but I don’t know if he likes me. We are super goofy together and have gotten wayyyy closer this year. He is very shy and awkward so I don't know how to tell if he likes me. Some things that led me to think this was that he and I were talking and his brother came up and started holding up a heart when we were talking. His friends joke all the time and say “there’s your girlfriend” or “hey Becca, there’s your boyfriend”. We talk on FaceTime for sometimes more than 2 hours. The only thing I’m doubting is that he talks to this other girl. Not to put her down but she talks to a lot of other guys. She is leaving hearts on his pictures and I don't know what’s happening between them. His brother even brought up out of the blue that he likes me more than her. I don't know why he would be saying that if he wasn’t talking to her too. I just have no idea so please help.😩😩

This guy and I are incredibly shy at work. I’m 20 and he’s 22. He doesn’t talk to many people. At first he didn’t really talk or socialize with me. Last month I overheard him whispering to another guy and they were both looking at me. He does things for me without me even asking (getting things for me, holding doors open, helping get things that we need for next shift). Also very recently (as in like two weeks ago) he has started to sit in the seat I always sit in at this table (he never stays to eat lunch but recently has). And I always sit a few seats away from him. I said that’s my seat and he said with a smile oh I thought it was my seat and I’m like no it’s mine I always sit there and you know this and he laughed and said oh ok. He also bumps into me a lot but recently I’ve been jumping back when he comes near me (lol). He held the door open for me one time and said you’re welcome loudly in a joking voice and I said no and stuck my tongue out and then he laughed. When it’s the two of us and I am talking he just says yeah or laughs and doesn’t really say much in response. When I ask him a question he does answer. It’s very awkward when it’s the two of us. We are both awkward and shy. He hasn’t made a move on me and I’ll admit sometimes I do blantly avoid him and sometimes I flirt with him and he does the same thing to me. He doesn’t go out of his way to help other girls, hell he doesn’t even talk to other girls at my job. He seems more comfortable talking with guys but I guess I’m the same since I talk to girls more than guys but I don’t go that way.