Search Results: scaring a guy off

How do I let go of the hurt and stop overthinking?

I like this guy, and because it's a long distance sort of thing, it's mainly just based off texting each other everyday. I only found out recently that he likes me, although I had a suspicion that he did for a while. When...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Flirting

Is it usual to feel highly awkward and weirded out by a man approaching you in public?

Is it normal to feel highly awkward? Or just plainly weirded out when a guy approaches you in public? In 2016 I moved to a new city in which men here are quite forward and enjoy asking for your number in general and...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I have waited before I asked him if he’s interested?

I have really strong feelings for a guy. We haven’t met, but we’ve texted pretty much every day for almost 6 months and we have so much in common and we just click which is really rare. I was almost 100% sure he had...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Should I ask the guy who seems to be reconsidering me if he is interested?

He and I had feelings but turned me down citing his complicated relationship. I could tell he wanted out and something was off about the relationship. Anyways, so I stepped back and created this cold distance between us....

Anonymous

(36-45)

He and I had feelings but turned me down citing his complicated relationship. I could tell he wanted out and something was off about the relationship. Anyways, so I stepped back and

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Can men look past a woman being plus size?

I am really scared of dating. Like REALLY scared. I'm bigger, and I can't picture anyone ever being attracted to me. If a guy started talking to a girl and they hit it off, would he regret it if he found of she is plus...

Anonymous

(18-24)

I need advice, I fell in love with the man I’ve been catfishing?

So I was on this anonymous chat app and every one right off the bat would ask you “show me a pic of you” and I’d never send a real one cus I didn’t care to show strangers real pics of me. I never faced any consequences...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Is it a good idea to contact his mom?

I will try to keep this short. But I met my boyfriend about a year ago and we became official in January. He lived about six hours away from me, until he mpved recently. My boyfriend doesn't have an education or...

ragequeen

Influencer Age: 25

How do I talk to a guy who seems to be more interested when I show no interest? I’m interested now so I’m scared to show too little interest?

Vaguely knew this guy through mutual connections. Had not met him, just knew people he knew. He started talking to me on Snapchat, and considering I had no idea who he really was, I was not at all invested so I was very...

KeziL

Explorer Age: 28

First date tips?

I’ve never been good at the whole dating thing. I’ve only been in one serious relationship, and I haven’t really had experience of dating. I have a date coming up soon with a guy I met online, and I’m super nervous....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Ex coming back?

So two years ago I was dating this guy and I guess I just took the relationship more serious than he did. Personally, I saw the relationship continuing on into the future but for him it was more of a couple month thing. I...

Anonymous

(18-24)

What did I do wrong?

I’m trying online dating and set up a profile on plentyoffish. com. I was talking to a guy on there for about a week, we didn’t exchange numbers or meet in person yet. He told me that I was beautiful and he didn’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Do you think its a red flag if he's saying all these things before a first date?

i have been talking to this guy for a month and we seem to have things in common. We have flirted a lot, sexted etc. We both wear our hearts on our sleeve. He has said things like: I care and like you a lot I have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

i have been talking to this guy for a month and we seem to have things in common. We have flirted a lot, sexted etc. We both wear our hearts on our sleeve. He has said things like:

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I can no longer stand my boyfriend but also I cannot break up. What should I do?

Hi everyone, I've been in this relationship for like 2 years now and it IS living hell. We're always fighting, couple of times a day always a different topic, he ALWAYS humiliates me no matter where we are (he shouts...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I just met this girl today and we kissed?

Story goes, I got off the bus and she got off before me, and then I stopped to check my bag and she walked back and spoke to me asking am I lost to which I said no thank you, and then we started talking from then....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I block this guy or stay friends and ignore?

there's this guy I dated then left for another guy a year ago and now that I'm not with the guy I left him for and a lot of time has passed I want the first good guy back but at the same time I'm also scared to be with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I found out from a friend that my crush likes me what should I do?

I have liked this guy since September. We hung out as friends several times and there was flirting. Anyway we kinda lost contact for a couple months and haven’t talked much. I still like him. He told one of my friends...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, He finally said he doesn’t like me but his actions contradict his words?

So over the past few months I’ve been hanging out with this one guy pretty solid, we’d hangout everyday and enjoy each other’s company. We started off as friends but it slowly emerged into something else, we started...

Anonymous

(25-29)