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so this is a little complicated. in first semester a boy caught my eye (lets call him guyA) and there was immediate mutual attraction between guyA and i. im kinda pretty and so I've had quite a few guys confess feelings to me just in my past 6 months at this school. but because i liked guyA i always turned down other guys. guyA and i didn't talk the first 3 months of our attraction we just smiled at eachother and sometimes waved.

after 3 months 2nd semester started. and on the firstday of school the boy who sits next to me compleatly fell for me.. we shall call him guyB... guyB makes it OBVIOUS he likes me. guyB also always smiles to me and i would forcefully roll my eyes as a response i wanted him to know i wasn't interested.

back to guyA in 2nd semester guyA and i had some mutual friends so we talked quite a bit. but basically just as soon as guyA and i started to become buddies guyAs friend suddenly confessed to liking me!! NO WHY! ruined everything.. so because its guyAs friend. guy A backed away and won't talk to me anymore. he will only wave to me from a distance. this has been going on for 2 months where he isn't making any moves. I've tried to talk to him a few times. even once asking him to study with me in the library, but he acts as if talking to me is some sort of sin now becuase his friend likes me.

All the while guyB is making all the moves and is growing on me. like we had a feild trip to an amusement park and we needed to stay with our classes so guyB made the situation into a date basically. i was acting aloof to every advance he made but at the end of the day i had a lot of fun with guyB. and he also takes a lot of initiative to look out for me or take care of me in some way. he pays attention if i look lost in class he steps in and just helps me. or if i grab my stomach becuase im hungry he offers me a snack. all without me ever saying anything. so i feel like just throug these small actions he is weaseling his way into my heart.

Hi! I am not exactly a school-girl, but current situation definitely makes me feel like one. I just don't understand what could have possibly happened! So basically what happened: I met him over on Tinder (it's 21 century, get over it!), I have started the conversation, and it was pretty obvious that both of us are interested (we were talking for over 2 weeks!), both are curious and logical. Well, a pretty much perfect match! I asked to meet him (not straight forward, i just got him interested and he came), we were talking for a while, and knowing me- it takes time to warm up to people, by the end of "so-called-date" I was feeling really good about it! i fell in love, if you will. We kept chatting over social media, and had really great deep conversations. Then we went for a really long walk. I thought that since i was pretty cold on our first meeting I need to compensate that, and I really wanted to be flirty (just wanted, not really planned it). Both of us apparently enjoyed it, and he even texted me later that evening. We kept talking, and even had one really nice moment when you just feel the other person regardless of distances. Then he went out with friends and EVERYTHING changed. Not immediately, but the distance started increasing. We agreed to meet but it never happened. I truly care about him, and know I could be a bit overwhelming. I started to feel like I haven't given him a chance to show initiative, not enough room. So i started taking breaks, not texting for a day or two... Last time we were talking we touched on a subject that i am really knowledgeable and passionate about, so I made my best effort to explain to him some points. Apparently, being really "silly" I have almost made a mini-lecture over a text. And now he just doesn't talk to me, he didn't even read my last text. I really care about him, but it is painful to be treated like that, I have dignity! I don't feel i can move on. Question is why? And should i move on? i don't know...