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So my ex started distancing himself and broke up with me and kicked me out of our house just this sunday. Mind you, his mommy was there to back him up. A month or so ago I noticed a strange bottle of perfume that I KNOW I dont wear in our bathroom. Out of curiosity I started hiding it to see if he would question me on it and give me an idea if my suspicions of cheating might be true. 3 different times i did this and all 3 times he found it and put it right back in the spot it was originally. So I decided to confront him on it. I asked "Who's bottle of Clinique 'Happy Heart' is that?" "It's my moms" "why is it here?" "I like to wear it... because i have no cologne"(He has 3 bottles AND a ton of AXE) "You wear womens perfume?"
"Yeah, it smells good mixed with axe" I was in shock. He has this really unhealthy attachment to his mom like.. we used to work together and EVERYDAY they went to lunch together. One day when she dropped him back off she went to kiss him on the mouth and he turned and gave her his cheek because i was standing there. Question is... is he gay or is it incest and the other woman has been his mom this whole time?

Hi men out there, I'm seriousely very confused and would love men's feedback! I'm in my mid thirities. I recently started talking 'again' to this guy I dated casually for a few months last spring/winter. I ended it in late spring because he literally had NO time for a relationship. He was just getting divorced, has two kids, just trying to adapt to his new schedule, and works nights. NOw I know you are gonna say: 'if he was into me he would make it work right?" He would be into me and then I felt like he wouldn't be. He would text me sometimes every day or every couple of days and then nothing for a week! I ended it may saying we wanted different things and he 'agreed' and LET me go.
Out of curiosity and boredom with no luck finding anyone semi compatible with this summer: I texted hello about a month ago. Of course he responded right away, was nice, flirty and then HE asked me for breakfeast 'to exchange' dating horror stories. He paid, we talked/caught up for an hour and a half. It seemed like there was something still there, we hugged and he kissed me on the cheek. FYI: even when we were casually seeing each other his texts would never be consistent. After we met last week, I texted him a few hours later saying 'great seeing you, thanks again for brunch, we should do it again" he responds right away saying: "anytime, I enjoyed it, we should do it at least once a week". I said "sounds good"
That was 5 days ago so I reached out one more time today saying "hey hows your week going? Do you want to get breakfeast one day this weekend?" He responds right away saying "I can't this weekend, I have plans with my sons" All I said after that was, "oh cute, have a good time!" and then I got nothing back.
Now I question is: IF HE IS NOT INTO ME AT ALL, or if I'm his backup, then I want to know and he should just tell me upfront right? I am not intitiating EVER again today was my final contact. Does he like me or just wasting my time?