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Search Results: make initial contact
I joined this dating website, sent the first message and obviously blew it?
For starters let's just say that I am really awkward at the thought of dropping lines, much less flirting with potential suitors. As the question suggests, it was I that made first initial contact! From the reads of his...
Anonymous
(36-45) I am terrible at reading signs and I always seem to make the wrong choice. Is she interested or not?
So I was at the gym and locked eyes with one of the staff girls in passing for like 3 seconds. It was pretty intense but she was definitely looking at me and I was looking at her. The thing is she never smiled. So at...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why keep texting a girl if you're not going to put forth the effort to make plans?
I had to cancel our initial first date (which he hadn't set a time) because of personal issues, but he's kept in touch, initiating first, almost every day since. He asked even we'd meet and I gave him times that I was...
Anonymous
(30-35) What should I do (and avoid to do) to make a girl choose me instead of her nowadays boyfriend?
So I know a girl since some months, I have her among my contacts, and I really want her. Unfortunately, after almost 1 week texting between us, she revealed she has a boyfriend. I'm sure she had a initial interest on me...
Raven1990
Xper 6 Age: 36 Should I reach out often, or just wait for them to come to me?
Ok. This is mainly a question for the ladies. When you first start talking to a guy do you wait for him to contact you, or do you reach out to him (after the initial contact). With most girls I'm frequently reaching out...
Anonymous
(36-45) Do I text him first after a hook up when he says text me later?
So I’m at a patio bar late afternoon on Saturday watching UFC after getting off work. There was a guy and his budding sitting behind me. we definitely were attracted but both too shy to say anything. After at least an...
Brianna82
Xper 4 Age: 44 Help decipher these mixed signals?
I met a guy online and we talked for a week and then met. (It seemed like a little less than a date because we paid for our own food and movie tickets separately.) We hit it off and he texted me every day following the...
Anonymous
(30-35) Has a girlfriend still shows signs of liking me?
Before I start I wanted you all to know we've been friends for 2 years now he used to try to flirt with me I would shoot all his attempts at flirting down making it clear I'm not gonna be easy. Used to call himself a...
Anonymous
(30-35) Does he like me or not? All answers appreciated.
Signs he likes me -He always cares if I feel bored or not -He sees it if I'm sad -A lot of body brushing goes on like we'll be walking so close together that we'll occasionally bump into each other -Notices when I'm...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do younger women check me out? (way younger...)
I’m 44. While out at a store, restaurant or coffee shop, I often catch younger women checking me out. They’ll hold their gaze while making the kind of initial eye contact people naturally make when entering a room or...
SexyOlderGuy
Xper 5 Age: 57 Am I crazy ex? is he playing me? does he wants be back? trying to be nice? chance to get him back?
The break up: We were together for two years, broke up more than 6 months ago, he dumped me because my ex issues, I wasn’t feeling his love so I tested him, but he said we can be friends call him to hang out sometimes....
Anonymous
(36-45) Friend zone but complicated situation - can I get out?
Background info: I'm in the friend zone with my best female friend and looking for ways to get out of it as I have very strong feelings for her. I'm 22 years old and have just graduated from college in engineering. I've...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ladies, did I do the right thing?
So my ex girlfriend dumped after dating for 10 months. She told me that she never loved me. In all fairness, I never told her that I loved her during that year, but I think I was workng towars developing those feelings....
chx000
Xper 6 Age: 42 Why a guy won't touch me or initiate sexual contact
I meta guy weeks ago and its odd because he won't touch or initiate contact with me, despite the fact that he claims he's into me and severely turned on. the odd thing is that though we have already done a few sexual...
jenn556
Xper 5 Age: 45 Post-sex contact..what are your rules/what would you rather..
This guy and I have known each other about 20yrs, we hung out all weekend then I drove home Sunday (we're about 3hrs away from one another) he works 16 hr days, Mon-Sat, I'm kinda busy too but I thought he'd get ahold me...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How do I continue conversation at the gym?
I go to a yoga class regularly and recently this woman started going. She looks a similar age to me, and she is cute. I generally have confident body language, I use eye contact, smile, etc. but I'm not a talkative...
namismybabe
Xper 3 Age: 41 I'm almost sure he's falling for me... but he doesn't contact me everyday
He likes me I like him, we've been dating for a month (not exclusively yet)... We end each date making plans for our next date and with him texting me after to say it was great.. He keeps a toothbrush for me at his place...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is he leading me on?
dating for a bit, however, he is usually not in town. we usually see ea. other once a week. he seems to have lost some interest in me, then we only saw ea. once a month due to both of our schedule (I get busy as well...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) How can it be easy to be so inconsiderate?!
I met a trainer while interning at the gym that was admittedly interested in dating me. I was in a relationship at the time so of course I brushed it off. After the very short relationship ended, I decided I would take...
Anonymous
(36-45) If he is going out of his way to be my friend is it because he sees potential in me as a girlfriend?
Do guys typically try to be a girls friend if there isn't anything real bringing you together? I mean if you are both TRYING to be each others friend. We don't work together, we don't have mutual friends or...
Anonymous
(36-45) 