Search Results: reconnect with an ex

I'M Attracted to someone but I'm scared?

I've been healing from a terrible breakup, found out my ex moved on in less than six months. I've recently reconnected with an old friend and I'm very attracted to him. Are my feelings lust or am I just scared to accept...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I got closure but it still seems like an excuse to me. Do you think my ex was lying or telling the truth?

I recently had a conversation with my ex. It was the first time we spoke in almost 2 years. According to him, he had loved me and was experiencing symptoms of depression since we stopped talking (drinking, drugs, over...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Reconnecting with ex-hook up?

This guy and I were on and off casual for like 8 months while long distance, then we lived in the same city (for work - not to be together) and we were definitely more together for the first couple months. He didn’t want...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to talk to an ex again if you ended up badly and want to reconnect?

Well I still see this guy in school and I feel that I’m lowkey catching feelings for him again. It has been a long time and I was thinking that maybe I can test waters and see how he feels about me. I have a feeling he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why would an ex girlfriend who dumped you & cut you out of her life follow you on social media?

This is a girl who dumped me. I really loved her & she ended it abruptly and with vague reasons that never really made sense or were fully explained. Since then she'll text occasionally always pretending like we are...

BeCreatively

Xper 6 Age: 34

Ex girlfriend of 7 months told me she wants to focus on her future and doesn't want a relationship?

She went to school end of August and things got more difficult for us. She finishes in December and originally told me she wanted a break because we had been arguing because she couldnt give me an answer if i was going to...

Doppelganger45

Xper 3 Age: 37

Tips for reconnecting with an ex girlfriend?

She has been my ex for 2 years, we haven't spoken much in that time but we did date for nearly 4 years in our mid/later twenties. She ended things but there was never any big blow up or error on either of our parts. I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, what would you think if you got this?

So an ex fwbs, kind of ended badly (but a misunderstanding of intentions). She was upset at the time, however I really have no idea her thoughts on me in general as a person. So it's been about 1.5 years since... anyway,...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Family & Friends

Have you ever been surprised at the changes in an ex after seeing them years later?

I recently reconnected with an ex I dated 25 years ago (but last saw 19 years ago), not to get back together with her but because of the industry she works in as well as to say hi. She is now quite religious and very...

Avicenna

Master Age: 55

Could You Get Back With An Ex If They'd Been With Someone Else Since You?

This is the scenario- You used to date someone, and since you split up they ended up meeting and getting into a new relationship with another person. (Perhaps even multiple relationships) Those two subsequently split...

MsElizabeth96

Xper 7 Age: 29

This is the scenario- You used to date someone, and since you split up they ended up meeting and getting into a new relationship with another person. (Perhaps even multiple

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Guy's Behavior

Guys Take: Was he just playing games?

Hey everyone! Would very much appreciate a guys take on this. I have known this guy for a very long time since I was younger and have always had feelings. Lost contact after he switched middle schools and we...

rzazzie11

Xper 4 Age: 31

Our break up makes no sense and I can’t move on from it?

My ex and I broke up after 3 years together. He broke up with me out of nowhere and gave a million irrelevant reasons but when we met again he had calmed down and said he just needed to figure himself out. He showed...

Andiepandie1990

Xper 5 Age: 31

I guess this relationship is over?

So we moved in together just the beginning of this month and i'll be honest. What should have been a fun and exciting happening turned into a big dissapointment and i blame her for it. my father , my brother and a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is it inappropriate for me to reach out to her ex, now that she and I don't talk anymore?

You can go through my previous questions if you want to get a better sense of the situation, but here's the SparkNotes version: I was talking with this girl that I reconnected with after college, for about a year. Due...

winterfox10

Master Age: 33

You can go through my previous questions if you want to get a better sense of the situation, but here's the SparkNotes version: I was talking with this girl that I reconnected with

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Reconnected with my old date after 3 years, I still love him?

We are from West Europe and he is temporarily working in Barcelona. It's been almost 2 years that he's working there and in November he will be back. I know him from 3 years ago, we dated for a few month. We liked each...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How to trust my boyfriend again? Tips?

Hello! I’ve been in a relationship for more than 2 years. We have been living together for 1 year. However, this past 2 month’s have been very stressful. We have been fighting for small things, sex is also reducing (from...

nana11

Xper 3 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Ex texts in a positive way then ignores?

Details to know : he is single, we didn’t had an abusive relationship. He dumped me, because lack of communication and (very) bad life timing. We never had a last time / closure talk. I would like to reconnect with him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I go or not go?

So my ex keeps messaging me wanting to reconnect. He says he's sorry that he acted really immaturely when we broke up (he said some incredibly hurtful things) and that while he doesn't want us to get back together...

Anonymous

(36-45)