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How do I work on my self confidence?

I'm a big girl, 5'8, 148 pounds. I have terrible self esteem issues and even though I watch what I eat and exercise regularly, I can't seem to get any smaller. It really gets to me because there are always skinny girls...
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Trying to decide if I'm to nerdy. Need a second opinion.

I've had people tell me I'm really nerdy and as much as I know most don't consider it an insult...I kinda do. So i figure I'd ask on here what other think. I do watch a lot of old scifi. But only because I have a very...
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Laughter leading to breakdown?

I've had what felt like a very rough time the past several months. I was trying so hard to find the best approach in going forward with all these elevated expectations and drastic changes in my life...Yet I just couldn't...
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Happiest when Single? Why is this TABOO?

Hi there guys ;D So, I'm a single gal, 24 (turning 25 in two months). I have come to the epiphany that... I am happiest when single, and really don't have a care as to whether I get married or not. I do want children.....
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Did I ruin what could have been?

I met this great guy at work, who I knew I was smitten with almost instantly, it was too easy to talk to him and we got along so great! After some time I expressed interest in dating again (it had be a few months since I...
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Do you think this explains why a lot of guys are simply "naturals" with girls? as in they have been successful.

with attracting girls, getting a girlfriend since day one, every since puberty, high school, these guys had their first girlfriend and lost their virginity in the teenage years, they never had to go through trial and...
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Does this sound like I'm desperate?

I'm 18 years old and never had a girlfriend. I'm not a player or a liar or cheater and I don't plan on being that kind of person.Back in high school I've never really approach girls and been kind of awkawrd around the...
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Why this guy be so frustrating?

I'm 18 he's like 19 eh he was senior back in school, we were sorta school aqauntances but then I homeschooled, he graduated etc. He would randomly message me talking and stuff like that but I would usually not reply back...
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How do I change my beliefs about men and their capability to love?

I know this is gonna sound strange & you'll probably think I'm crazy when you read this, but I haven't had a true boyfriend since I was in college 18 years ago. I realize this is greatly due to low self-esteem & a big...
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A good female character to use in trying to "mimic" to gain self confidence?

So, I have very low self esteem. I also am very "socially awkward" but still I manage to have friends, and people seem to like me for the most part (although my anxiety always makes me think everyone secretly hates me...
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How do I stop making the same mistake? And how do I make him care again?

My fiance & I had a beautiful relationship until recently. We've been together for 2 years, and lately we've both been under a lot of stress, trying to figure out our futures, marriage, finances etc. I have a neurotic...
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Help! I'm having a hard time building my self-esteem back up and I can't get over the idea of this girl

No matter how many strides I take to improve my self-esteem---building up my hobbies, positive thinking, getting rid of bad friends, removing myself from bad situations and putting myself in good ones--I just can't seem...
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Hard time meeting girls and dating, what am I doing wrong?

For some reason, I seem to have the most difficult time meeting girls, establishing contact and taking things to the next level relationship wise. Due to my erratic work schedule and lack of a social life, I have hardly...
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Does it get better? Will she never leave my thoughts?

My ex unexpectedly dumped me right before New Years. She then immediately started seeing this older guy friend of her sister's (that very well might have started before she officially broke up with me). She strung me...
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How do I find out what this guy is all about so I don't have a repeat of the last guy?

i have been single for more than 2 years, and that was my first and last relationship, which was horrible because the guy tried his hardest to make me feel really bad about myself. getting over that relationship and...
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Anyone know of any exceptional self esteem building books?

I struggle with low self esteem and honestly a little bit of social anxiety. It affects all areas of my life from my relationships (ha ha dating because nothing has really turned into a relationship), to my work life, to...
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How to resolve confidence issues?

I've been treated poorly by guys ever since I first started,I was cheated on and made feel totally useless.I felt really inferior to these women as I thought they must have better bodies than me or just offer something...
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How can I get my confidence back?

I have always been treated badly by men,been cheated on and made feel completely useless.I felt really inferior to these women as I thought they must have better bodies than me or just offer something that I don't.My body...
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How can I feel more confident?

I've had a couple of bad experience with guys,been cheated on and made feel like crap.My confidence and body image took a complete nose dive,I felt totally inferior like these other women must have better bodies than me...
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How would I approach a woman and ask her out?

I am a 30 yr. old guy who has never had a girlfriend and wants one really bad. I have been on a couple of dates, but never more than that; It sucks being alone! I don't have much money to do things and I live at my folks...
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