Search Results: harmless flirting

If you're in or around that age, what are the chances of you (or anyone you know) being attracted to a guy that was in his 40's? And if an attraction, is it physical, or more than that?

I'm just curious. I'm 41 (I don't know if I look my age or not?), and I know this girl, I think she's 19 (or around there, maybe 20 or 21?), but whenever I see her she's always flirting with me. I don't take it seriously most of the time... I can't see her really being interested in me, I think she's just having fun, but? Is there a way to know/tell if it's just harmless flirting, or she really is interested in me?

So to start with, I've been dating this girl for only around two months now. She is quite a flirt, and openly admits it. She tells me honestly about how she flirts with other guys, but as far as I can tell she doesn't do anything more than flirt or have any desire to do anything more than flirt. She genuinely just seems to enjoy teasing people. She knows how jealous I can be and tends to avoid giving me any details about it as a result, not that I particularly want to know how she flirts with other men. I've been cheated on a lot in the past and am having troubles trusting her, but whenever we talk, I can't help but feel like she wouldn't cheat on me. Yet I continue to worry whenever I find myself alone. I found out that she even flirts with her exs, so I asked her to stop that since it seems dangerous to our relationship, but she got sad about it so I ended up telling her it's fine if she does. So my question is, what do you think about her flirting with other people? Do you think she's cheating or planning on cheating? Do you think it's just harmless flirting? I'd like different perspectives on this.