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I've known this lady since I was eleven; Nearly half of my life. When We were kids I never considered being attracted to her. but everyone new she really had a thing for me. Now we're all grown up and work together she's also my best friend D's cousin. And good friends with my roommate. I am falling head over heals for about the last two years. We always talk non stop and have a great time always at work and just hanging. Last night we had party me and her drink and talked all night until the sun came up. We layed together in bed but i was way to scared to make any move. She's always telling me about her horrible ex and every time she leaves him she makes she to tell me all about it. any advice at all would be appreciated. She's always asking me to do things she can do like run to her car etc. I can't tell at all if she's flirting with me. She's always very beautiful SL I don't know if she's looking good for me or just always. Does she feel it too? Should I have made a move on her last night or at least kissed her?

I'm totally confused about this girls interest in me and dont feel like summing up our past on what happened. Here's our convo last night and i'd like opinions on whether she's interested or not based off THIS convo

Just want to point out she's an alcoholic and i'm helping her out with it. She knows i am interested but wants to "stay single for now" untill she feels she's stable for a relationship. No, this isint a BS excuse. Her daily life is TOTALLY consumed by her addiciton AND caused her to gain weight,

Anyway:

Me: You know, you're a totally different person when sober and thats the one I wanna date :p
Her: Why?
Her: *Sends a selfie with some cleavage* my boobies are too big too (shes talking about how the alcohol caused her to gain weight)
Me: Why do I wanna date the sober you? Haha thats an obvious question. And don't tease me :p
Her: It's cause im too fat (shes implying when she gets sober, she'll lose the weight)
Me: You're not fat! You're fine. You know I like you for you! You dont realize this but when you're sober you're a completely different person, you're more calm and caring
Her: I can be mean when sober too
Me: Haha well so can everybody, you should come over to my house one day :)
Her: Maybe (she gives this answer a lot when i try to get her to hang out. she tells me she's extremely shy and thats why she barely hangs, and cause she doesn't want to develop feelings when she's just trying to get better)
Me: Stop being so shy and lets hang already
(2 hours later)
Me: Are you ok? what are you up to?

(the convo changes now)

ANYWAY... Opinions girls and guys?

Can someone explain this to me please? I am extremely baffled. Please note I met this girl off a dating site and she is extremely into me. She out right said so and shows it! These events are not in chronological order

Signs she has a bf:
-When I first met her on a dating website, i heard through a mutual friend who recognized her, that she has a bf. I asked the girl this, she said no
- I was bored one day and texted her number via a texting app and said "hey do you have a bf?" and she said "who is this? and yes"
- She told me she put her # online to get support for her problems. I took advantage of this and texted her pretending to be one of her supportive, new, online chat buddies. I asked her how her relationships have been affected and if she's in one, she said she's been in one for 2 years. (I FOUND THIS OUT 3 DAYS AGO) When I asked why she was on a dating website she said "We took a break"

Signs she doesn't have a bf:
-Again, me asking her, as well as a different mutual real life friend, asking her. She said no
-She got offended and insecure that i messaged her flirty best friend, asking her an innocent question
-Shes out right flirted with me and told me she's looking for something long term
-We got into an argument one time and she threatened to go date one of her friends, as well as reactivate her okcupid account ( a month ago)
-When I ask her about dating, she goes "im extremely depressed and going through alot, i wanna be single for awhile"

As you can see, i "Creeped" and found out she might have a boyfriend. How do i get that info out of her? I need to know the truth! she's telling strangers (anonymous me) one thing, and me something completely different!