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Met a guy this weekend at a Xmas party and had the most amazing night with him. We were instantly attracted to each other and I ended up leaving the party to go to a bar with him and his friend. We danced the night away and ended up making out for a lot of the night. We had great chemistry but were fairly drunk for most of the night. Later in hte night he started suggesting I stay over because I was staying at a friends in another part of the city (but his brother was there and annoying so he also suggested a hotel room). I told him he was being too aggressive and to chill a little because I wasn't sure if that was a good idea. I'm not the type of girl to sleep around and he's a decent guy it seemed. When the bar was closing, I was expecting him to say let's go to my place but instead told me that he doesn't really know me well and that he has a lot of work to do the next day. He apologized for treating me like a whore and that he liked me and didn't know the night would end with us actually liking each other. It was kind of awkward leaving and he thought I was mad at him for not wanting to slep with me (at the time I wanted to since I was drunk but wasn't mad, just confused).

He sends me a text when I get home saying he'll make it up to me. The next day he sends a text saying when can I see you again? I say after the holidays and he's says great and we can hang out then. He's a mutual friend so I heard that he's a good guy but I get the feeling that he just wants some ***. He is very good looking so I really didn't mind if it was just a hook up but he seems like he has a lot going for him so I want to try to make it less of slutty situation. He lives in NYC and is gorgeous so I doubt he has trouble finding someone to sleep with. I live in another state so I don't know why he would want to keep ties with me if it were just a booty cal.

How long should I wait to selep with him to show him that I'm datable? Do guys get turned off once the girl shows she wants to sleep with them? If I don't really hear from him until we hang out is that a sign that he just wants sex? Why would he choose not to sleep with me if he was more drunk by the end of the night and really attracted to me?

Also, if you're attracted to a girl, how long do you wait to contact them/how much do you contact them in the beginning?