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In a world where people gossip, I wouldn’t answer just any question in real life, not even my partner. I like to be a closed book and let people assume the rest. I wouldn’t answer questions like
Questions about politics...
“What are your political views?”
“What are your views on interracial relationships?”
”How do you feel about gender”
I don’t want to be making enemies within this political divided country and lowering my chances of finding the right guy... Or people to think I’m a liberal, racist, trashy or etc. based on my answer.

Questions about who I would or wouldn’t date...
“Would you date outside your race?” or “would you date ____ people?” or “what is your favorite hair/eye/skin color on a significant other”
Even if the person, who has a trait I don’t like, isn’t into me, it could make them feel bad about themselves if I answer these kind of questions. For example, if my partner has brown hair, I wouldn’t want him to feel bad knowing that strawberry blond hai is my favorite hair color on a man.

Questions about my family
“What are your parents like as a couple?” It’s no ones business about my family’s whereabouts and who they are.

Questions about my health
Again, no one’s business

Questions about my sexuality
Again it’s no one’s business. I’m a virgin and I keep that a secret in real life because it’s embarrassing for someone my age to be a virgin. I don’t like virgin hunters that much either. I don’t want people to be confused about my sexuality either just because they know I liked a masculine girl in high school. Or to think that I am more likely to cheat on my partner just because I crave sex a lot.

There are a few questions though, I wouldn’t answer on here or in real life either.

Me and this guy have been dating for 6 to 7 months. We had a couple bumps on the way to poly relationship to gauges to disgusting. Our recent was involved me and him watching a yt video on interracial relationships. Where along the lines he says disgusting and I ask him why. He responds along the lines of if I ever slept with a white person and I respond yes. Again along the lines disgusting and that he’s dead serious and he will leave. He asked me how I felt. Already at this point I emotionally checked out. We were silence till we talked about it later. And he went in details on how he didn’t meant that I was disgusting but white people since he been attended a predominantly white highschool and white friends and that’s his morale opinion on them. However I was kinda already ready to let him go because I have lots of patience but I don’t do well with feeling hurt. End result I’ve decided to think over if this is something I want to continue and I’m leaning on the side of letting him go cuz we’re just two different people. And I understand that he didn’t mean to call me disgusting but it still made me feel some type of way that he say he was serious and that he would leave that I slept with a white person that doesn’t make me feel service to continue a relationship with him at all. Though I do serious with letting people go cuz I hate hurting people feelings so it be nice to hear others opinions to see if it’s justified for me leaving him.