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Search Results: make initial contact
Does she want me to talk to her?
There is a girl that works as a personal trainer at the gym I go to. One day as I was walking out she looked at me and smiled. I just thought "damn, she's cute" and figured she was just being friendly. Over the next...
Anonymous
(36-45) I'm seeing the guy I like in a few days: how to act?
This guy and I used to like each other but things didn't work out, and he started ignoring me because he was mad. I'm seeing him in a few days and I want him to notice me and maybe fall for me again if possible, how do I...
Anonymous
(30-35) Why hasn't he contacted me? Will he ever contact me?
I am getting very sad, because I don't know why he hasn't contact me and whether he would contact me ever. He was my instructor last semester. And we both do like each other. How can I tell? We flirted a lot in class and...
godhelpmoi
Xper 3 Age: 53 Can my ex replace her distrust in me with butterflies in her stomach again?
I've known a girl since grade school. We hadn't seen each other since and we bumped into each other when 3 years ago and started dating. This girl did everything for me. She was more into me then I was into her. I didn't...
Anonymous
(36-45) I JUST talked to my crush. YES I approached him but. . . .
I just talked to my crush (YES I walked up to him and initiated the conversation) but when I was talking I felt that he was not interested for some reason. I mean he kept the convo up we made eye contact a couple days...
Anonymous
(30-35) Shouldn't he WANT to see me/ text me etc?
I have been dating a guy for a couple months now. He pursued me and I know he showed signs of being interested in me at least a year before we actually got together. It's been very casual thus far, going on dates/hanging...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why do men lie about being married to someone?
Okay, so here goes, I had been seeing this guy for about 9 months, when all of a sudden feelings started getting a little heavy on both of our parts. I couldn't stay friends with him because my feelings for him were...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Should I freeze her out and make her miss me? LADIES. advice, please! (guys too?)
there's this girl who I think is clearly interested in me (and I'm interested in her too). the way she talks, giggles, asks questions, and flirts on the phone is a clear indication that she likes me at least a little bit....
Anonymous
(30-35) He's just not that into me - your thoughts please
About 2 months ago a guy contacted me on a dating site on the internet. My initial reply was that he lived quite far away (3 hours), and he then replied that he didn't want to let that be a barrier when looking for a soul...
surfergirl
Xper 4 Age: 49 How do know if a guy has put you in the 'Friend Zone'
I have this guy friend and we get on really well well talk every day at work or by phone, text or instant messaging. He usually makes initial contact. He never talks about girls he likes with me but he will talk about...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is she attracted to me? or just being really friendly?
met this girl last year through our parents, immediately after the initial acquaintance we started talking like everyday, I could feel the chemistry between us and the attraction but I wasn't too sure. I don't see this...
itzs4m
Xper 5 Age: 40 Is she attracted to me? or just being real friendly?
I met this girl last year through our parents, immediately after the initial acquaintance we started talking like everyday, I could feel the chemistry between us and the attraction but I wasn't too sure. I don't see this...
Anonymous
(36-45) The truth about how to get a good guy?
All the guys I know seem to be needy or players. Guys, how many of you would describe yourself as: A) Having self respect. You may sometimes accidentally come across as needy but you make a conscious effort not to...
Jessica1810
Xper 5 Age: 35 Need advice from confident, attractive women?
Hi, need expert help from women who can help me understand this beautiful woman I'm dating better. This is my first question so don’t disappoint! I apologize in advance about the question being long as I feel like I need...
wdmguy2k1
Xper 5 Age: 46 Is my ex serious or lying because she is angry or trying to make me jealous?
So I called my ex girlfriend after a period of 3weeks of no contact from our initial argument. I sent her text the next day after the argument to say I was sorry and tried to explain and she didn't contact me back, so I...
Craig
Xper 5 Age: 37 Why do guys FIND ME AND ADD ME to Facebook then not make contact?!
Guys I have met briefly through friends, out, at workplaces or guys that have seen my page and found I had similar interests or they found me attractive find me and then add me and then don't make first initial contact?!...
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does he become weird all of a sudden?
There's this gorgeous guy & I'm totally not. there was a problem between the 2 of us and my friend who had a crush on him.. where we tried to pull a prank by giving him a friendship letter...he doesn't talk to girls and...
Anonymous
(30-35) Possible to regain girl's interest after initial rejection?
OK, at my dorm-like place, I met this girl I befriended, and I met her cousin as well, the one whom I'm attracted to. After we had a few conversations I decided to ask her out a couple weeks ago, and she said yes. But the...
larryburns
Xper 5 Age: 38 Seeing the ex love of my life for the first time and meeting the girlfriend - help!
I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. After little contact with my ex for about 16 months, I am gearing up for the fact that I will be seeing him at a mutual friends birthday with his gf, sister and mum! We didn't...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Attraction and Opportunity
It was requested that I write an article about an on-going issue that I responded to that pertains to flirting and engaging a person in conversation that would lead into a relationship. Essentially, the initial...
WaitingAtTheDoor
Yoda Age: 44 