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I met this guy a few months ago and I dont see him often. Every time its the same thing, I let him know I'm around and he instigates us "getting together". We only talk when I instigate a conversation and we have never said we are just FWBs. I've assumed its just that so I have guarded myself, I don't act clingy or needy cause honestly I'm not desperate which I thought FWBs loved (this is my 1st). This past time I was in town things completely changed. I let him know as usual and the next day he texts me and asks me over. He had been drinking so on my way he calls me twice just to make sure I was really coming. I get there and we start talking about our weekends and I end up telling him I went skinny dipping in this lake and all sorts of craziness... He immediately looks at me and asks, "you've been F'ing other guys all weekend haven't you?" I deny it and ask him the same which he denies. He then gets angry and says dont act innocent and tells me the last few times he had seen me out that I'm with a different guy every time. I say uh what exactly am I guilty of? He couldn't answer. Later sexually I ask him what he liked and he says, I like you, which has never been said. I also asked if he thought about me and he started talking about my smell. I brought up what he said about me sleeping around again the following day through text and he completely brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. The same sorta thing happened around 2 months ago he ran into me at a bar and I was with another guy... he mean mugged me the entire time I was there. I thought nothing of it because the next day I asked him to talk about why he was mad, he brushed it off. I don't want to be the girl who asks the "what are we" question cause I'm not desperate but if he does like me I would like to know. People I talk to say he is just getting territorial and not to think that he likes me since he was drunk. Any advice?
Sincerely,
Confused

So I met this guy a few months ago and since we live in different parts of the state I dont see him often. Every time its the same thing, I let him know I'm coming in town and he instigates us "getting together". We only talk when I instigate a conversation and we have never said we are just FWBs. I've assumed its just that so I have guarded myself, I don't act clingy or needy cause honestly I'm not desperate which I thought FWBs loved (this is my 1st). This past time I was in town things completely changed. I let him know as usual and the next day he texts me and asks me over. He had been drinking so on my way he calls me twice just to make sure I was really coming. I get there and we start talking about our weekends and I end up telling him I went skinny dipping in this lake and all sorts of craziness... He immediately looks at me and asks, "you've been F'ing other guys all weekend haven't you?" I deny it and ask him the same which he denies. He then gets angry and says dont act innocent and tells me the last few times he had seen me out that I'm with a different guy every time. I say uh what exactly am I guilty of? He couldn't answer. Later sexually I ask him what he liked and he says, I like you, which has never been said. I also asked if he thought about me and he started talking about my smell. I brought up what he said about me sleeping around again the following day through text and he completely brushed it off like it wasn't a big deal. The same sorta thing happened around 2 months ago he ran into me at a bar and I was with another guy... he mean mugged me the entire time I was there. I thought nothing of it because the next day I asked him to talk about why he was mad, he brushed it off. I don't want to be the girl who asks the "what are we" question cause I'm not desperate but if he does like me I would like to know. People I talk to say he is just getting territorial and not to think that he likes me since he was drunk. Any advice?
Sincerely,
Confused

I'm 24 and in a relationship of over a year. I have a Facebook, my 24 year old boyfriend has a Facebook. We're out of college so we don't use it much, but we both still have them.

I want to be Facebook official. I know it doesn't really matter, but a lot of my friends don't live in town and I am proud of my relationship and want everyone to know about it. I also like the security that comes with everyone knowing. It's not like we hide. Everyone we know in town pretty much knows we're together, but I don't really see the problem with it.

FYI, he has been "FB official" with all of his exes (college-high school etc) including shared Facebook pictures etc. I know we're out of college so Facebook isn't as big of a deal, but I still want us to be together online in addition to in real life.

Some of this is me being territorial since I live in his city with all of his friends, exes, and ex fuck buddies. Some of them give me the stink eye when we see them and go "oh! I didn't know you had a girlfriend" or "What? since when?" when he introduces me in bars etc.

He says that he never uses it so he might just delete it, but it's also how he stays in touch with college friends so I know he won't actually delete it. To me, it just seems like an excuse and like he really doesn't want us to be publicly together online or something. I don't think he's looking for women on Facebook or anything, so I'm not really sure why.

Thoughts? Do you think he's trying to hide? why wouldn't he want us to post on there? People say the privacy thing, but why would you want to keep the girl you're in love with private? It feels like he's hiding me.