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We knew each other 3 years ago as coworkers. I asked her out, we talked on the phone for a few months but we never dated. I was going through some personal stuff back then that I didn't want to involve this girl in. So we stopped talking to each other.

Last December I found her on MySpace. 2 months later I sent her an email telling her that I would like us to get to know each other again. 4 weeks later she emails me back and says she's okay with that. Then there is a 4 month gap where I'm sending her lots of emails and calling her cell phone so that I can tell her about myself but then she never gets back to me until this morning.

I'm the kind of guy that let's the answering machine pickup the messages but for some reason I felt like picking up the phone to see who it was. The one time that I answer the phone in a long time and it happens to be this girl that I have been trying to contact for the last 4 months. We talked for nearly 3 hours just catching up.

Turns out that she was having a busy life and just had no time to get in touch with me. Long story short she was working 3 part-time jobs and going to college full time.

I'm also the kind of guy that doesn't get jealous easily. I found out that she is seeing someone right now and has been for the last year and a half. I don't know if it is because we got to talking again or what but she said that she was having problems with her current boyfriend and said that it doesn't look like it will last much longer.

Oh and I also found out that the boyfriend is the jealous type as in he won't allow this girl to hang out with her guy friends at all. Oh and he is a homebody that doesn't like to take this girl out when ever they get the chance to be with each other (i. E. Nightclubs, parties, actual social gatherings, etc. ).

Before I picked up the phone, I had already made the decision to cut her out of my life without telling her but then she called and now I have no clue what to do next.

There's this girl that I am after. I asked her out on a date 3 years ago but she didn't want to date me because she had just broken up with her cheating boyfriend. After a few months of talking on the phone and never actually seeing each other, I almost got Cancer again and I then decided that I didn't want to continue pursuing her. I didn't tell her back then what was going on in my life because I felt she was too young to understand why I pulled away. 3 years later, I came across her profile on MySpace and we have continued to email each other and talk on the phone for the last few months. I even told her the real reason why I stopped talking to her 3 years ago (the Cancer thing).

Since I still don't know this girl that well, I have been communicating with one of her best friends also found through MySpace. Recently they have both figured out that I have been coming to the best friend for advice so that I can get to know a little more about the girl I am after.

I'm very sure that I want to continue pursuing this girl from 3 years ago. We never dated and even though I have dated other women since I stopped talking with this girl, I still think about her a lot.

Her best friend has already mentioned that it does look like I like this girl that I am after but she also mentioned that the girl I want is not physically attracted to me.

There's a girl I like. While looking up bands on myspace I discovered her profile

She has pictures of herself kissing this guy, he's her #1 friend and she is his, however they both say their relationship status is divorced, and the comments from the pictures are 2-3 months old.

Her last blog, dated a week before she starting hitting on me recently, contained the following:

"I believe that I have felt more love in two weeks than many people experience in their entire lives. To think it is reciprocated is priceless. These things should not be thrown away easily. I They are worth an unspeakable amount. I don't want to replicate them; I want to keep the things I have. "

Is he her ex boyfriend? Why would she try so hard to get my attention if she was in a relationship. BTW, I asked her out months ago, and she turned me down - so I stopped talking to her, and she made no effort to talk to me. Then about a week after she posted the above blog she started staring at me in class, then she walked up to my desk at the beginning of one class and stared at me till I looked up and saw her and she gave me "that look" while piercing my eyes and we held each others gaze for 4 or 5 seconds - I asked her out again after the next class when I "felt" her walking behind me - she said maybe - and we agreed to talk about it next time we shared class - I ran into her a little later the same day and she was all smiles and talked to me for a bit with a lot of direct eye contact, before I had to run off to class - she even mentioned she lived a minute's walk from campus.

What is going on here? Please help - I really like this girl

Points awarded for all answers, I really need advise - I'll be seeing her tomorrow

There's a girl I fell hard for on the first day of this semester when my eyes first met hers. We both completely stopped in our tracks and looked into each others eyes for a while. On the 2nd day I found her standing behind me and we talked for a bit before class. After two weeks I asked her if she'd want to grab coffee with me - she turned me down.

Something didn't seem right, so I left her alone and avoided her for about 2 months. I would catch her looking at me in class - something inside told me not to pursue her, that I was just seeing what I wanted to see,and she wasn't interested in me.

Then one day she she starts flirting with me very hard. Walking by me and slowing down to a stop and stare me in the eyes. She even went so far as to walk all the way to my desk and stared at me till I looked up and saw her.

So, against my better judgment, I walked up to her and started talking to her again, her face immediately brightened up, as I started walking away, she followed me and kept talking with me. After the next class, I "felt" her behind me, I turned and smiled at her and she immediately starting glowing and even laughed at a dumb joke I made, so I decided to ask her if she would want to do something with me sometime, she said maybe and was all smiles. I asked her to think about it and said I'd see her next class

That class is tomorrow, and up until I found her myspace today while looking for something else, I just don't know what to do

She has pictures of herself kissing this guy, he's her #1 friend and she his, however they both say their relationship status is divorced, and the comments from the pictures are 2-3 months old.

Her last blog, dated a week before she starting hitting on recently, had the following:

"I believe that I have felt more love in two weeks than many people experience in their entire lives. To think it is reciprocated is priceless. These things should not be thrown away easily. I They are worth an unspeakable amount. I don't want to replicate them; I want to keep the things I have.

Life's successes should be measured in how many souls you touch and how deeply you love. It is the single biggest truth about humanity- love heals all. We all need it.

We all deserve to find happiness. When it's staring you in the face and you see it but don't know how to get to it, you still should accept it. Let it in. It will find its way. And if it doesn't then it wasn't your happiness to begin with. You are worth more than this world has to offer so if your dreams are given to you. You must take them.

Choose who you love wisely and when you've made a decision you stick by it until it turns into ash. You decide who you love and it's the difficulties you go through that reconfirm you made a good decision. Humans will always let you down. But we also have the capability to continue to love no matter how hard things get"



What does this all mean? I feel so lost, is that guy her ex-boyfriend? What do I do now? Please Help