Search Results: choosing between my friend and my ex

I like this girl name Jamie (I've had a crush on her for a while and she knows i use to like her before). I broke up with my ex 8 weeks ago because I was more happy around Jamie. But Jamie is interested in this girl name Sarah for 5 weeks now. Sarah lives 11 hours away from Jamie though. I live 10 minutes away from her.
Jamie always talks about how she wants to tell people I'm her girlfriend.. but Jamie post things about meeting Sarah in a few days and nothing about me...
Lately I've been hanging out with Jamie a lot and we always hold hands and cuddle together. We say cute thing to each other.

Since Sarah is coming to visit Jamie I feel hopeless. They aren't dating until they spend time together (they never met in person before. I've been friends with Jamie for 4 years.. her and Sarah have been friends for maybe 2-4 months). Jamie told me she doesn't think they are going to date until Sarah goes back home. but i'm scared Sarah is going to ask Jamie out and Jamie will say yes and I won't have a chance with her.

I dont want to ask Jamie out now because Sarah spent $400 on a plane ticket to see Jamie. I know I shouldn't wait to see what happens between them to but I want Jamie to choose who she really wants instead of me asking her and I might be let down again because she wants to see how it goes with Sarah..

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This is really bad... I dated one guy for a couple of months and then we kinda had a fight and split, now I'm currently in a relationship with a guy and we have been together for almost 4 months now. Things are going great between us. Before all of that happened, I actually chose between these to guys. (Obviously I chose the one I'm with now over the other guy.) Well just recently the other guy I'm NOT dating (My ex Ill call him), texted me saying he has been thinking about me and misses me. I knew that my ex really liked me and he had a lot going on with family and friends so we hadn't talked in a while. The only reason we broke up was because we hadn't talked. I feel like I should stay with my current boyfriend since he is more serious about me. Should I ignore my ex? or try and choose again? (Keep in mind both guys really REALLY like me) Thank you!!!