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Me and my boyfriend was talking last night over the phone about how he hates his job (of 8 years) and wants to try to apply for policing next year
He has told me this goal of being a police before we even started dating
So anyway this is our conversation:
Him - im definitely going to apply for police next year
Me - oh okay nice
Him - yeah. I know i have to do a course first and then have to go to the academy school which is 2 hour drive from where we are
Me - how long does the academy go for?
Him - i dont know.. maybe 4 or 5 months.. gotta check
Me - so i can't see you for 4 or 5 months?
Him - i think we can take weekends off so i can come drive down to see you and all on the weekends.. but does it matter if we dont see each other for 5 months?
Me - ofcourse it matters! Its hard not seeing your partner for 5 months!
Him - but we can communicate everyday?
Me - but you're gonna be staying there.. there's other girls around you
Him - babe.. im going to be focusing on this. Not other girls. Im serious about being a police. And im serious about you.. look im going to tell you.. just dont get your hopes up though.. but if i make it and become a police, thats it.. Im going to ask your parents for your hand in marriage. I would marry you. And anyway if your parents know im a cop now, they will feel more secure.
Me - wait.. wtf?
Him - yes im serious. If i get into cop, my life is complete. I will be settled. I will be ready to get married. So please stick with me. Dont leave me.
So guys, should i be worried about all of this?
Do you think its possible he could be lying about marrying part?
Im just scared that if i can't see him for 5 months and there's girls in the academy, then he's gonna lose interest in me... or we both gonna lose interest
I dont wanna stop him from his dreams and goals though..
He has told me that as soon as he's settled, he would be thinking of marriage and kids later
We been together for over 1 year
But i dont know what to do or think about it all😔😔
by the way im 22, he's 27

I'm getting sick and tired of dumb bitches who are making the dating scene almost impossible. So my guy friend was flirting with this girl "I" intreduced him to. (Was kinda playing the match maker😶) now I have known my friend for years he is a nice boy. We played together got bullied together and yes even got in to trouble together. I know what what type of person he is. His mom and mine were childhood beasties still are to this day... long story short this other feminist girl called the cops on my friend telling them he was "harrassing" like WTF? The girl I introduced my friend to had to tell the cops that it was a misunderstanding and the three of us had to go someplace else because it was crawling with lesbian counts who can't wait to get him arrested. But despite the negatives this girl is sweet and told me he is handsome and that she would hook up with him again. At least the night ended well despite the drama that had me worried to shit by the way. ... that boy is like a brother to me... I hate when feminist lesbian bitches hurt the men I love... so flirting with a boy is harassment now? Bitch get you a freaking man and get a life... stop killing for us who "want" a fucking man ughhhh
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