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I work with this girl who is a waitress while I’m a chef and her behaviour has me confused;

- I won’t be saying anything and she will tell me to shut up then smile at me
- She jokes that she wants to fight me and knock me out
- She gives me daggers in a kind of joking way
- She puts her finger up at me and smiles
- She pretends to hit me with a box
- She keeps reminding me how much work I have to do, so to rub it in my face
- Some of the other guys asked her if they could come out with her and her friend after work with which she said no, but said i could come though i wasn’t part of the conversation, but then later took it back.

Does her actions mean she is attracted to me thus is flirting with me, or is it more of a friendly interaction. I find it difficult to judge if when a girl gives me attention that she is actually interested rather than just enjoys the attention.

Some companies require clerks to 'build rapport'. Servers and waiters / waitresses depend on tips, so may flirt to up their income. Sometimes workers are just bored, and/or having a bad day, and just want to chat someone up.

In your comments, tell us how you decide whether the connection you have is genuine, or not.