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Many people say that we live in an overly sensitive and touch-phobic society. I know we do it to protect victims of sexual assault and as a victim of sexual it puts me in an awkward position. I mean I don't like it when people I don't know touch me (even a tap on the shoulder can make me freak out). But when it comes to people that I know and trust it's a different story. The attack left me with "some" anxiety issues and even though I'm very uneasy with sexual touch, I still enjoy the feeling of comfort and security that other forms of physical contact give. For one, I absolutley love being held :D Some people say hi, I give a long & tight hug. If I'm chilling and watching TV with my girl friends 'll snuggle up next to them and if they're my guy friends I'll sit on their lap and wrap their arms around my waist and tuck my head under their chine. Some people think that kind of behavior should be reserved for people who are in a relationship but it envokes the sense of security without envoking any sexual feelings. One girl I know even said "you just do that to show your huge tits" and I'm like really -_- whether I have boobs or not it still makes me feel safe and comfortable. And I see no reason to wait to be in a relationship to enjoy that sense of security. What do you think, do we live in a touch phobic society.

Mine was last night. I can't remember half of it but my friend told me in detail of what happened after i sobered up a bit. It was my friends birthday party and we had drinks and poker in the basement. I was the only girl out of 5 guys and it was the first time meeting 4 of them. We played some poker and i lost:/ And then i remember being very touchy feely with two of the guys there (i have a boyfriend and they all knew) I gave everyone nicknames like irishman and purple pants and that part i can remember and it was pretty funny haha. And then i sat on one of the guys lap and hugged them and was super touchy with him... And then the parts that i dont remember at all was when i fell over the poker table and spilled drinks, put my head on one of the guys laps and puked on their pants and tackled someone facefirst. And then the next thing i knew, i was laying on the couch with them trying to contact my boyfriend and mom. My boyfriend kept calling n texting but they wouldn't let me have my phone. They tried to hide it from me so i wouldn't say anything stupid to my boyfriend. I ended up puking soooo much and couldnt fall asleep at all bc of a raging awful hangover... My whole body was in physical pain. All that i remember last night was that i lost 20 dollars in poker and me sitting on this guys lap whom i just met. I did tell my boyfriend everything tho and he seems to be understanding. I feel like shit tho bc thats a line i should never cross with another guy n i almost did last night. All the guys took turns taking care of me tho n they were so nice n concerned for me. Im very lucky to have been surrounded by good people.

Don't know about other girls, but I find the idea hot. I know it would really turn me on. I know its not really conventional as a girl usually sits on a guys lap, but I've never been one for traditions anyway. Though how likely is it that I'll just get squished and lose all feeling of my legs? I weigh 122lb and my boyfriend must be about 160lb.