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Me and this girl work together she has always been flirty with me along with other guys, but it always seemed a bit diff with me. Mainly because i never go out of my way to show affection especially at work. she would say things like "ok dont say hi to me" or "ok dont hug me w/e", or my personal fav "its ok all the other girls are after you dont worry about me". anyways we ended up hanging out past 3 nights after work. first two went great, especially the second time. we hung out 1 on 1 for hours and we both told eachother some pretty deep stuff about ourselves. we txted the same night and i let her know im shocked i told her some of those things and she said "same, im not usually one to open up either, but its ok now we are both vunerable" ) its obvious we like eachother to an extent (i think?). tonight she told me to text her after work and we would hang out. i txted her and didn't hear back for like 4 hours (i didn't send her a lot txts like a lot guys do when she doesn't reply). she said her phone was dead and that she was sorry (i dont believe it but w/e aha) and she told me to meet her at a place. i told her ok id be there soon cuz i was at a small get together with other friends. i ended up leaving 30-45 mins later. got there and the vibe just seemed different. maybe moreso on my end than hers cuz i didn't buy the phone thing etc. we hang out for like an hour then her, her girlfriend, and her gf's boyfriend went outside to smoke a bowl and i waited a bit 15-20 mins and thought to myself why am i here for this? so i left without saying a word to meet back up with my friends who i wrongfully left in the first place. was this a dick/wrong move on my part? i dont want to play games, i feel its obvious we both are into eachother so why do that?

sidenote: Im not use to getting attention from girls like i have been now that i lost a lot weight this past year. im really shy/lack confidence but i guess i dont show it. i do feel nervous though. I dunno what