Search Results: is he interested or am i just a rebound

He started following his ex back on instagram?

I’ve only gone on one date with the guy but I’m getting definite signs that there’s no point pursuing anything with him since he’s started following his ex back on IG. We are very different people, but I thought he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Lessons I Have Learned From Getting my Heart Broken

Every once in a while, you meet someone super special. And last year, I met someone cool. We met in July 2017 in a random pool hall on a college campus. He made an impression on me, but I didn’t realize we would cross...

JustAnotherGirlie

Editor Age: 30

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Relationships

Troubles committing, would you give up on her?

Me and my ex have had a turbulent couple of months, we still talk and we're close and I'm still very much in love with her however.. I'm not sure what she feels anymore. Just 4 weeks ago is when she decided to jump into...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Dating

Girls can you answer this for me?

So basically long story short. Met a girl flirted with he things got very heated ( told me her undergarments don't hide much) an then for some f-ing reason she thought she was a rebound an that burnt that bridge really...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested in a relationship or a rebound?

This really cute guy and I were dodging each other at work. I have a huge crush on him so he made me extremely nervous - hence the dodging. We both recently got out of relationships. I've moved on - but I'm not...

MissOptimistic

Xper 5 Age: 30

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy block me on fb?

So, this guy that I knew from my teenage years sent me an add on fb. He was going through a breakup where he was hung up on the ex.. Well, he started liking my stuff up then I noticed he'd deleted me. I played like I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Why did he block me on fb?

I'm going to try to keep it short and sweet. So, this guy that I knew from my teenage years sent me an add on fb. He was going through a breakup where he was hung up on the ex.. I'll throw that out there. Well, he started...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

Why is he pretending he never had feelings for me?

I've known this guy for about 9 months. We've just been friends because when we met, he had a girlfriend so we weren't really close. We met up again at a club event a week and a half ago. (I'm in high school) We snapchat...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

How messed up am I? Am I acting like a child?

After suffering from a big heartbreak from the ending of an international dating session (3 months, I know it's bad considering I only met her for a week and half), I've gone through a month worth of hell trying to move...

Zomat

Xper 4 Age: 40

Guy's Behavior

If a guy recently got out of a relationship (about a month ago), would that be a reason to pull away from the girl he was talking to?

Initially he was showing interest and talking to me, then he got distant. They've been broken up for about a month now. He's the one who ended the relationship but could it be possible that he still has feelings for her?...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Girls, Shy Girl Problems?

I asked a shy girl out that I work with. We went out and hand a great time. (She texted me 10 minutes after letting me know how great of a time she had). Then she became distant. I asked her about it and she said she got...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

I've met the perfect man.. Except he has a serious girlfriend.. Help?

So I've met my dream man. We met by going for a weekend away with our mutual friends. This involved going to the spa together, going for dinner/drinks, and then sharing a common interest. He impressed me in every way...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Girl just got out of relationship... how soon is too soon to go out with her?

I am not interested in being a rebound, but that’s basically what it’s coming down to. A couple weeks back I was getting to know her and she ended up blowing me off for someone else... and now a week and a half later she...

FreeLeave

Xper 6 Age: 33

Break Up & Divorce

Boyfriend of 1 yr and a half broke up with me 2 months ago and immediately started dating his friend. Is it just a rebound?

My ex who lives 1 hr away broke up with me over FaceTime a week after he visited me saying that I was the best girlfriend he ever had, but he doesn't want a relationship rn. We are both graduating college and have been...

completeconfusion

Xper 4 Age: 30

Dating

Is she right in saying that my new relationship could be a rebound?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Let me start off by explaining that my last relationship didn't end too well. We dated for about 5 months and I was really falling for him, but then he ended it a week before

Let me start off by explaining that my last relationship didn't end too well. We dated for about 5 months and I was really falling for him, but then he ended it a week before Valentine's Day. About a couple months later I created a dating profile to try and move on. I wasn't looking for a relationship. Just maybe potential new friends because that was one of the options, to look for friends only, but if the friendship led in that direction for both if us then that's ok. I started talking to this guy and we seemed to really hit it off and he seemed very genuine. But then my ex messaged and apologized and wanted to get together to talk. I agreed, because I still had feelings for him. We got back together and I disabled my account. About a week later he told me he had started doing drugs to help him sleep and asked me if I would like to get high with him for fun. I can't stand drugs. I don't like the smell or the addiction, and I especially don't like the long term problems they cause. I told him I wasn't interested and he never asked again. A couple months later, I felt like we were never going to be how we were. The breakup, and especially the fact that he started doing drugs, pretty much ruined any chance we had of a future together. So we finally broke up for good. A week later I reactivated my dating profile and specifically started looking for new friends only. No exceptions. The guy I had been chatting with sent me a message and we finally decided to meet in person after talking for another month and a half. I have been quickly falling for him since then. We talk about the future and stupid things like whether pineapple belongs on pizza or not. Lol. But when he drops me off at home each night after a date, I feel like my heart is just breaking in two because he's going to drive away in his car and go to his home. I feel like I don't know what to do and that he's going to end up leaving me like my last two bfs did. My mom says it might be a rebound. Is it really?

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Girl's Behavior

I am not sure if I am reading the signs wrongly?

I am currently in my college Freshman year. Few months back, I met a girl who was attached at the time in a class. I was kind of into her but since she was attached, my interest sort of died down. We still talked and...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

What if I am a rebound?

I meet this guy, for lets say.. 1,5 months ago, and he' told me when he was drunk (last weekend) that he really likes me, and he would give me the world if he could. But.. There is always a but. He became single 2-3...

blablabla2827

Xper 4 Age: 27

Dating

I may be his rebound, date him anyways or turn him down?

I've been single for a while, and had a crush on a guy friend of mine. He's good-looking, kind, loyal and honest, among other things. We also share several interests. He went through a bad break-up seven months ago. I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Does a boyfriend have a right to be concerned and seek closure about her ex when she said "It's still hard"?

Around a month into our relationship, we started randomly on the subject of traumatic past experiences. She told me a story about a group of creepy stalker friends and that led me to ask her if one of those stalkers was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Guy post-break up: showing genuine interest or desperate for an (emotional/physical) rebound?

So, in my hostel i was staying, i met a guy from germany and we hit it off. at first he was really just friendly, a bit reserved as the germans seem to be (granted, he's a bit americanized since he lived there for a bit...

Anonymous

(30-35)