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Okay this guy literally is playing mind games with me obviously. I asked him if I was invited to his bday celebration downtown and he said yes ( wealso work together and have kissed and have done oral) i was happy and that was a week ago. I saw him at work a couple days ago and he said hi and acted kinda perverted like he was cool and he starting to act like he can have me when he wants kinda attitude I could tell and I brushed it off. So I texted him to come talk to me when he gets off and he said “ we will see” he gets off of work and then we see each other and he just leaves. I text him “ wow if you don’t wanna talk to me u could just say so” “ he pretended like he was ina. Hurry somewhere and then I said “ you know u don’t wanna talk to me anymore for whatever reason” he then avoided the topic and said “ you looked so good today” I said thanks and sent him a sexual meme and was like lol ! And he never answered so I texted him again hours later saying “ WOW NO SENSE OF HUMOR, anyways when is your birthday thing Saturday or Friday?” I knew it was on Saturday but just wanted him to text me but he didn’t And he never answered me and today is Saturday and it’s his bday and I’m wondering if I’m even invited anymore. Should I text him again? Or just leave it and ignore him because I don't know wtf I did. He said I looked good yet never texted me and keep acting like this?

I gave this guy I'm talking to $200 for shoes cause it's his b day we obviously both like eachother and have kissed and have done oral sex on eachother. He before said he doesn't trust anyone and has a hard time expressing himself and says he doesn't talk about things openly and he says he keeps it all in. We get to know eachother a little bit and then I said since I gave him those shoes he has to tell me about himself and he looked scared but said he'd do it. Now he has the shoes ( I was gonna get him a present anyways but I was being nice for his bday) and now he ignores me everytime I bring up the fact I want him to spill the beans about himself and what happened to him in his life for him to be that way and he avoids my question like the plague. I then asked him are you gonna tell me or not... he then says " I am just not right now" and I said that doesn't make sense not right now it could be forever then. He then stops texting me. He looks at me like he likes me a lot and I can tell in his eyes I made him really happy and he wants to tell me everything because he keeps talking to me even when he said he wasn't gonna tell me ( pre birthday present) everytime it's brought up he looks terrified. Does he want to tell me? He said when you trust people bad things happen.

When single (as an adult) my general rule has been a 6 week wait to weed out any players or for disinterest from either party to set in. 'Sex' includes oral and any sexual play with clothes off. Kissing and maybe some making out is ok.