Search Results: turn down a co-workers

Is this guy player or genuine?

THIS IS LONG TEXT BUT I NEED YOUR HELP. Please give bit of your time without judging me. Thank you! My male coworker (with live-in girlfriend of 3 years) and I have feelings for each other for last 1.5 years. we...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How would you handle a situation with a creepy, possessive and entitled coworker?

I was friends with this guy at work for a while. JUST. FRIENDS. When he tried to be more than friends, I didn’t reciprocate. When he asked me out, I brushed it off and avoided making plans. When I started to feel...

honeydreams

Xper 3 Age: 30

Should I dump this guy off?

This guy and I met last year at music festival in my city. We hit it off and agreed to see each other again. He said then that he will visit me again in few months, but that never happened because he was too busy. Our...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Quitting my job while having an emotional affair?

Hello all, soon I am quitting my job. Generalny, I am very happy about it (my work turned out to be very frustrating since the beginning of this year), but, on the other hand, I am upset, because.. I think I have...

PashkaAnastinakis

Xper 3 Age: 34

Guys, Was I rejected?

So I had a client who was always very shy around me, he was very vocal with my coworkers when I wasn’t around apparently. One day, we were about to go down some stairs at the same time and he turned and went the other...

Anonymous

(36-45)

He put his hand on my thigh?

I know this is not a question. But here it goes the full scope. Last Friday about 15 of us stayed after work for drinks and snack. One on my coworkers came later, and it happend so he sat next to me. He brought a friend...

GenderX

Xper 4 Age: 40

Dating

Is he shy, nervous, not ready for a relationship or just not that in to me?

Almost exactly a year ago a guy who works in my office building, Mike, and I went on a couple of dates and ended up in bed together. We were open to seeing how things developed but it turned out both of us weren’t at a...

RoseBud8

Xper 2 Age: 42

Guy admitted he loves me but turned me down as he is in complicated relationship. Now he comes in my private space. Is he looking to hook up?

One of my male coworker and I have had feelings for each other for over a year. He is in a relationship with a woman he has issues with. He and I never met outside work. We are highly compatible. I recently admitted my...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How to deal with the guy who is playing mind games?

male coworker and I started developing feelings for each other a year ago. We never met outside work. He has a girlfriend of 3 years and they live together. Every now and then when his girlfriend was mentioned, I got...

Anonymous

(36-45)

This man is perfect for me, but he turned me down in the past. Should I swallow my pride and be with him or move on?

I met a man who took interest in me right off the bat, and asked me out. I thought he was attractive, but I honestly wasn't interested in being with him (or anyone, so I thought) so I hardcore rejected him. For two months...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guys/Gals: Why is he being mean to me?

My crush and me are now friends. He is mean to me sometimes, he still looks at me, we still have eye contact between us and still ignores my whtsapp message but he talks to me in person. Yet, he ignores me sometimes and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Can I get him to ask me out?

I've been flirting with this guy who works at bank for like months now. I go in there every week and see him pretty regularly. We've been chatty and he even tells me I look gorgeous some days. He sometimes asks me what...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Attractive female coworker sometimes likes to joke (and joke dirty) with me. She has a boyfriend. But is she just being friendly or she interested?

So I work with a very attractive female coworker. I only see her in person every few weeks. She’s smart and works hard. She also has a good attitude and easy to get along with. She also acts like a tomboy and...

Anonymous

(36-45)

What kind of sociopath/narcissist is this man and how do I get rid of him?

So this male coworker tried really hard to get my attention and eventually we met up after work and some times more and kissed - I didn't feel it was right so wrote him via chat and he actually told me before I had a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Girl rejected me and then was super nice to me the next day?

She said we are good friends but she doesn't like me like that. I accepted that and am fine being friends with her. The next day she was super nice to me and was approaching me more than usual and when she did she...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How to get over a crush from work?

I fell hard for a coworker few months ago but he nicely rejected me. He told me he's not looking for a relationship... I told him it's all cool and I continued working normally as usually as if nothing happened. I put a...

Anonymous

(36-45)