Why should I use protection when all I want is kids? And if I lust him I won't be nervous. Even if I am shy that only turns me on
then why do people say virgins are inexperienced? what kind of experience don't they have?
Because technically virgins are inexperienced, as they've never had sex prior and haven't. Doesn't mean they don't know anything, When I was a virgin I knew a lot about sex, however after years of not being one I can say I know more now obviously because I've even through scenarios
what does having no experience in bed mena? what exactly?
It means that you'll feel things and see things that you've never felt and seen before. And right now, you have no idea about how you'll react to that.After you've done it a few times, you'll get used to it. Those feelings will be natural, and you may seek for them. You'll get to know your body and your reactions. What feels good, and what doesn't. At this point, you still don't know what you like or not. You can't make an informed decision about many things.
@mikemx55 so being ecperienced in sex means knowing what you want? why do men want that? What does it give them?
Since many women will be sort of surprised with the whole bunch of new feelings (and so will the man...) they will tend to just let the man in control, and see where it leads to. If it hurts, they'll be afraid and just want to get it over quickly.This makes one type of man who will see the woman uncomfortable, and will be uncomfortable himself, thus not enjoying the moment fully, spoiling the mood to that the other is feeling a fish out of water in that situation.The other type of man, likes to be in control, and see you submissive, so, he'll like it, and he'll feel in full control of your pleasure or pain. Control is addictive, and they like it.The third type of man wants to provide you with the best 1st time experience, and even if it isn't that great for him, although he sees that the way you act is nervous and scared/unnatural, that itself may amuse him, and he will still focuses on your experience while not being frustrated about his own.(don't listen to me, I'm a virgin)
But this was all assuming that the woman will act surprised/strange/uncomfortable, etc... I imagine that the ones that are more informed and have explored their bodies before, and know fully well what causes them pleasure and how to achieve it, will not be surprised at all, and can easily engage in the activity...
I think it's more about the girl or guy being attached after looking their virginity. And lacking confidence and be comfortable. but I'm not a guy and I've never had sex with a virgin so I can't really have the correct answer.
I don't know tbh, I'm still virgin :p
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Non virgins may also enjoy pain. And if the virgin is aroused enough she may orgasm. lol what is hard in riding? It is not riding a bycicle. It is only going up and down. Lol
Yup, my first time, was my partner's first time. She said it hurt a lot. She also came almost right away and began uncontrollably bucking her hips which hurt her more but she couldn't stop.I don't know why so many women seem to find riding hard, but they do. I find this cute since i don't actually like it all that much, i prefer being dominant.
by the way, you asked 'why do men want women to know what they want, what does that give them?'Most of us want an excited, aroused and passionate partner who gets off hard. It makes us feel like sex gods (men and women).If her lack of understanding of her own reactions or desires inhibits that, then we feel worse because we can't make her go wild.But... that's a maybe. My partner came first time we had sex. She still does, but is much lower drive now. She was 'better' when she had no experience.
If I lust him I will devour him.
Then it will be great.
One man is enough for me
Why they can't?
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