you don't care because you are not a slut.
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But it has negative side affects besides pregnancy and STDs (which have been increasing in frequency)?
One can like sex and not be promiscuis. Its not as if its mutually exclusive.
@hellionthesage If she doesn't have a partner and chooses to satisfy her needs with other people that's her choice. I thought pregnancies were decreasing?People like this can still enter into healthy long term relationships. She shouldn't worry "oh less guys will like me, or stay away from me". Then they don't belong in a relationship together. Obviously morals don't match up. If a guy won't date a girl bc of her sexual past thats his problem not hers. She isn't trying to please every male. Girls don't live in hope of guys approving of their actions. No one cares what you think.
Sluts care what others think of them that is why they tell others to stop judging them
That's a disgusting word. And girls who aren't promiscuous like myself tell people to stop judging because what a girl chooses to do with her body is none of your damn business. Why do you care so much what someone else is doing? I think people should mind their business and stop shaming everyone for every single decision they make.
Why do you care what others calls sluts?
I care that people try and be kind to one another. That no one feels less. Especially decisions they make that don't involve me and do no harm to anyone. Your question is stupid and the answer is obvious.
My question is whay you think of promiscuous women. You said it is stupid. So it is stupid to think anything of them? I agree. Sluts are no obe so we should not have any opinion of them.
No, your question "why do you care what others call sluts" is stupid. I just consider myself a nice person and it's her choice. I have others thinks besides who someone is sleeping with to bother me. People should focus on their own lives and stop talking so much shit about other people.
It does actually affect her relationships: socialpathology.blogspot.com/.../...orce-risk.htmlsocialpathology.blogspot.com/.../...uity-data.htmlwww.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/.../nihms499028.pdfcdn.freedomainradio.com/...iage_Partners_Study.pdfYes she can have as much sex as she wants however that isn't his problem, it is hers. He is going to pass her up, she will be the one left behind. Pretending their are no consequences is incredibly harmful to women. She can be promiscuis but that does mean she is limiting her chances of a relationship down the line. He isn't a bad guy because he doesn't want to be with that kind of woman anymore then she is bad for not wanting to be in a relationship, but their will come a time when she will be faced with the consequences of her actions and that will most likely be the loss of a really good guy because she decided to act on impulse with little thought to how it would affect her in the future.
While it is true that women are not here to please women (no one said they where) it is equally true that men are not here to please women, he has no obligation to simply accept a woman simply because she wants him to.
@hellionthesage There is no loss of a good guy if he doesn't accept her past. They weren't meant to be. If a guy does not want to date a girl because she was promiscuous, that's his decision. Everyone has deal breakers. But, stop making it seem like the girl missed out. Or that she should have made "better" decisions so she would have a chance with them. "losing" a guy isn't a consequence. Simply two people whos morals didn't match up.
Again I think your overlooking the negative ramifications of promiscuity. Second then if she didn't miss out then why is she complaining about it like so many other women who find that men don't want them when they have slept around? Obviously she feels she is missing out or she wouldn't be asking the question. Again, their are consequences to actions and we shouldn't pretend that women are some how an exception to this rule. How many women would accept a man with a checkerd past? Who was a cheater or had a history of using women? Not many and with good reason. We do not baby those men and tell them they shouldn't be judged on their actions so why would we be any different when it comes to women?
@hellionthesage Do you ever hear girls complaining that guys have slept around? No, because their is more to a person than past sexual relationships. Guys see sex as some kind of prize and it's not. It's a consensual sexual act between two or more people. Who is "she" that is complaining? I think women complain that men put so much on how many people they have slept with. When it's not a huge deal. Most women don't care, or would accept a man who had been with many women. Once again you are not a cheater if you are not in a relationship when you have these sexual partners. If both people are on the same page when it comes to the sex no one is using anyone. The whole last part of your reply is pulled out of your ass. Guys are not judged for sleeping around and everyone knows that.
I would avoid sluts. They are gross to me.
You do whatever you want. I don't care. Are you a lesbian? Why do you care who they have slept with?
I am straight. I care about people's morality.
Her mortality isn't harming you. There are few universal morals and the those are the only ones that are actually set in stone.
Actually yes. On this site even, they complain about "fuckboys" and "players". Then take into consideration that a promiscuis man has less of an impact on women then it does for men (relationships cost men more, just as women complain about getting "used" for sex its because biologicly reproduction is more costly for women then men) and that explains the small gap between womens complaints and mens complaints. On this site more then a few women have stated they do not wish to be with a guy who sleeps around, while they may be more lax in their view, it is not by that much. Furhter more as I pointed out with my links promiscuity does have a negative impact on a woman and does increase the probability of divorce and cheating as well as relationship disatisfaction. This is scientificly proven. If we continue to pretend like their isn't an issue a lot of women are going to make choices that end up negatively affecting them in the future. Hence me arguing against it.
Do you know what sexual morality is,?
I'm well aware
@hellionthesage Fuckboys and players aren't promiscuous men. They're guys who pretend to care for a female only to use her for sex. They actually USE women. Not the same thing as a promiscuous woman. I think women are more afraid of a STI from guys who have slept around. I also think woman care more about who than how many. Your links mostly point to women have sex at premature ages. 16 and younger... still nothing to do with an adult woman who has chosen to have sex outside a relationship. And the whole depression and anxiety have other factors and are probably the cause of childhood or psychological problems. The depression and anxiety may even be the cause of a woman being more promiscuous. Most woman that go into marriage as virgin are very religious or very young. Leading to religious beliefs against divorce or naiveness. Hence lower divorce rates
@hellionthesage Everyone can have different opinions, but for you to go around trying to "teach" people things you aren't widely educated on is ridiculous. You have four links that are even very straight forward. These divorce rates are caused by other factors as well. And you can stop arguing back with me because my views will stay the same.Maybe find some links where males promiscuity led to divorce, marital problems and cheating. You won't. There won't be some shitty article trying to blame men sleeping with a lot of people on their failed marriages. Other factors play into a failed marriage. Once again please stop arguing back, i'm not changing my mind.
if you are well aware of sexual morality then why do yuo think being sexually immoral shouldn't bother me? Why do you think I shouldn't care who is moral who is not?
Because their choices do not influence your life in any way. You can feel however you want, but it's ridiculous wasting so many emotions and so much time on someone elses life. If you chose to act a certain way, good for you, but you act like you need to be involved in other lives. Are you religious?
I AVOID SLUTS. How can you think this means being involved in their lives?
Telling someone how they should behave and what to do with their bodies is being involved.If you don't like promiscuous women, your choice.But, who cares how people live their lives.
telling SOMEONE? Lol I only say I dislike promiscuous PEOPLE
Male and female?
It has with those who want to interact with her.
Yeah, but as long as you is having safe sex there should be no problem with it.
All studies show that it has negative consequences on relationships from higher divorce rates and cheating to lower levels of relationship/marital satisfaction. Plus most guys stay away from promiscuis women when it comes to relationships so it does have a negative impact on her.
@hellionthesage definitely. Sluts get no respect and love
are they hot? I mean they are no better than hookers
Most hookers are gross lol have u seen them? I lived in Vegas for a little while omg ew lol Think about it, not many attractive girls that have something going for themselves would subject themselves to that. Just seedy ghetto girls
The same we can say about sluts