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Or maybe her need to be dominated drew her to the porn that taught her the word. Chicken or the egg?
@Dandeus In that case I'd look for a case of childhood trauma. I always wonder if that's the cause of linking abuse to affection.
Domination isn't abuse.
@Dandeus Depends on what you mean by "domination".Certain people think abuse is just domination. Hell, some people even think abuse is romantic (hence the popularity of 50 Shades). Clearly some people have trouble drawing the lines because they can't even identify what counts as abuse and what does not.
That's my point. It's just one of many forms domination can take.
@Dandeus Which is why I'd consider the possibility of this desire stemming from childhood trauma. Like an abusive parent who showed their love through punishments.
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