I said no to sex, am I being a tease?

Anonymous
Me and this guy have been into each other for a while. We are both not looking for anything serious, so we casually flirt, and hook up. However when we hook up, its not sex. We've done other things (make out, oral) but have never had sex. I know he wants to, because when we're talking dirty over text messaging, he always makes it a point to ask if he should bring a condom over next time we meet up. I told him no, not yet, but that I still want him to come over and we can do other stuff. It's not that I'm not ready for sex, I just dont know if I would like my first time to be with someone I am just casually taling to. Is it okay to do that? Or does it seem like I am just a tease to him?
I said no to sex, am I being a tease?
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