you are the first person who mentioned the emotional scars. I so agree with you. Girls who have had many relationships are very scandalicious, overemotional and dramatic.
Christian guys are always welcome
Good to know.
Good to know that there are so many conservative guys
What if a virgin girl wants anon virgin guy? Andwhat makesyou sayHE HAS NO right to date a virgin girl? Is there such a law?
when did i say its wrong for someone to want someone non virgin? i clearly said "everyone has different preferences" you could be a virgin and want a non virgin and vice versa. and then, ones again, i clearly say "but in MY OPINION..." and WHEN did i say he has no right to date a virgin girl? do you know how to read? how are you going to answer to a response if you didn't even thoroughly read it through? for the third time, i clearly said "he has no right to LOOK DOWN on those who aren't virgins". you sound ignorant af
lol read what you said " if a man is not a virgin, he has no right to expect a woman to be one"
I guess you are the one who should learn how to read. lol. Read our first comment once again
yes. that is what i said. no right to EXPECT her be a virgin. didn't say he has no right to date a virgin.
smh, its all written clearly. quit assuming shit and actually read what it says.
You said "if a man is not a virgin, he has no right to expect a woman to be one". Yet you are constantly denying
yesss. which means he can't just expect every girl to be a virgin and think lowly of girls who aren't virgins, he has no right to put her down for not being one. that'd be extremely hypocritical and sexist. when did i ever say he has no right to date one? i distinctly said that everyone has different preferences which means everyone likes different things and if a guy is not a virgin and likes a girl who is a virgin, there is nothing wrong. just like if a guy is a virgin and likes a girl who isn't a virgin. nothing wrong with that. and then i said what would be wrong is if a guy isn't a virgin, and looks down on girls who aren't virgins (having a mindset like "oh she's not even a virgin, i can't take her seriously, i want a virgin for a wife" ) because he himself isn't a virgin. what makes him think he deserves a virgin even though he's been sleeping around. thats just sexist. but like i said, if he's not a virgin and she is, there is nothing wrong with that as long as he has normal
intentions (like he wants to be with her because he cares about her, not because he's obsessed with finding a virgin wife)
My question is about guys caring about female virginity. Do those guys want to DATE a virgin girl or not. I think THEY HAVE THE RIGHT TO DATE WHOEVER THEY WANT.
ok, so in my female opinion (from having some experience with guys), i said everyone has different preferences. some guys want to date girls who are virgins, some want to date girls who are experienced. but then i also added that i think its wrong for a guy who isn't a virgin to expect all the girls he dates to be virgins. like i said, everyone has different preferences but some guys really do expect all their girlfriends to be virgins even though they sleep around. which is just not right
He can not only expect but also prefer whatever he wants
I am a virgin and expect my man to be a non virgin.
ha i knew it was about you. why would you ask this question (or any question at all) if you dont want any brutal, honest opinions. for the thousandth time, for those who dont know how to thoroughly read, i said everyone has different preferences (which includes your boyfriend!) but someone who is not a virgin has no right to put down other nonvirgins and act like they are somehow better, when they're out doing the same exact thing. most hypocritical thing ever. and the reason i mentioned it is because this hypocrisy is more common with men. those who sleep around all their lives, but then expect a virgin to marry them. really now. and before you start a whole other pointless argument, i said "those who", not ALL men. just making that clear. before you get butthurt again and start assuming im talking shit about your boyfriend again
I like to discuss topics with people. And he can sleep aorund and still choose a virgin as his wife. his life his rights.
i never said its against some law -__- smh, im saying a guy can't just go around dissing females who aren't virgins and treat them like they're dirty for doing the same exact things he does. if a guy ends up with a virgin even though he's been sleeping around, thats cool. but he can't be acting like he's too good for someone who isn't a virgin because he isn't either.
I am talking about his dating a virgin. I am not talking about what he thinks of other non virgin girls.
you literally just talked about marriage in your last response. and i was the one who brought up that guys who aren't virgins shouldn't look down on girls who aren't virgins. in my first comment. and i've been trying to make that point the whole entire time. and nowww you finally acknowledged it. i know you never asked what guys who aren't virgins think about girls who aren't virgins, but i was the one who mentioned that topic in my comment. my comment was 2 sentences. is it really that hard to understand my point
Sigh... my question is about dating. I don't care if non virgin guys look down on virgin girls
my question is about dating. I don't care if non virgin guys loook down on NON virgin girls. Sorry
i literally just said "i know you never asked what guys who aren't virgins think about girls who aren't virgins, but i was the one who mentioned that topic in my comment" literallyyyy just said i know that. -_____-
a non virgin guy has the right to expect his girlfriend to be a virgin. Agree?
are you kidding me. no. i literally said, in my small 2 sentence response (dont know why its sooo hard for you to read it properly), a guy (or girl) who isn't a virgin, has no right to expect someone else to be one. there's nothing wrong with not being a virgin, but thats the same thing as a drug addict expecting their partner to be completely sober and looking down at other drug addicts. really now. i mean if they end up with someone sober, thats cool. but they can't expect that when they aren't sober themselves
Not someone else but his girlfriend or wife. Yes he has the right to choose a virgin gir las his girlfriend or wife. lets forget aboutothers. We are talking about the girl he wants to date. Does he have the right to choose a virgin girl as his gf? If no then how can you stop him? Lol
you keep rephrasing everything. i said, for the billionth time, he has no right to EXPECT someone to be a virgin. didn't say ANYTHING about whether he has the right to CHOOSE a virgin. i feel like your just trolling at this point. nobody is thiss confused.
Does he have the right to choose a virgin girl as his gf? yes or no?
yeah he does, but that is not even what we were talking about AT ALL. you COMPLETELY changed the subject because somehow even after i explained myself a billion times, you still managed to stay confused and completely change the subject a bunch of times. my point has NOTHING to do with what a person chooses. nothing at allllllll. you just asked me a whole new question that has nothing to do with what i was saying. when will you finally get it through your head?
Your so dramatic. Lol. You still didn't understand that my question is only about dating a virgin. Your dumb brain didn't understand that. Just look at the poll. And see that in each variant I typed the word "date". I told you for million times that the question is about dating a virgin non virgin. Again you brought up judging non virgins in general.
are you kidding me right now. the only reason im so dramatic is because of how idiotic you are. i said, for the billionthhhhh time, i KNOW that it is about dating!!! and that i added my own thing to it! how many time do i have to say that for you to finally get it through your head? let me say that one more time for those who are slow- i know what your question is about. i answered your question (since i know you can't read properly the first time, i will say it again "everyone has different preferences" and then i, from a female point of view, decided to add my own opinion to this whole topic. my own opinion. not "to answer your question, i think.." i said, "in my opinion..." and i didn't say ANYTHING about marriage in my short two sentence response that is for some reason soo hard to process for you. other then "if someone's a virgin waiting til marriage" which does not mean my whole response is about marriage!!
You never answered my question until I repeated for the billionh time that it was about dating
i answered your question from the very beginning. and i didn't say anyything about marriage until you did.
My question was about dating if you looked at the poll you would get
and like i said before, multiple times. (even in my last response), I KNOW. i know its about dating!! i said everyone has different preferences. i am talking about dating!
you never clearly said if a non virgin guys has the right to DATE a virgin girl or not. You said both yes and no. So what is your final answer? lol
i said it soooo many times. i said that he has the right to date a virgin girl, but not the right to expect a girl to be a virgin. huge difference and i talked about both.
I care about people's past if they y are people i hang out with
Yeah, it all depends on the individual.
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I understand you. It is just sluts get butthurt when they know that the guys they like care about a girl's virignity. This is the reason why sluts want to diminish female virginity. They say that guys who care about a girl's virginity don't take her seriously which is not true
That does not make sense... if I cared about her virginity, the I would be taking her seriously. Definitely her sexual values. Which is why I would shy away from a virgin gal, since I would want to have sex with her... someday
What if she's had some one-nighters but she's tested clean?(Assuming a sufficient time has passed for incubation, etc. before the tests)
@redeyemindtricks I don't think I'd be compatible with someone who's okay with one-nighters. :/
people understand that what makes promiscuity a bad behavior is not just STD and other diseases and abortions. Promsicuity shows no self respect and no self esteem
Actually, no, that's completely incorrect. They have just enough self-respect and self-esteem, but they don't link sexual behavior to commitment. That's just strange to me. I was going to say "that means one or the other is not as important to them", but just because they're separate doesn't mean they're unimportant that would be a fallacy. Hmm.Anyhow, our values would most likely be incompatible. I just don't jump together with people like that on a whim.
So sleeping with guys who want them only for sex shows self respect?
Well if that is her choice, why wouldn't it?
if she wants to be used for sex then she ahs self respect?
It's not really "being used" if it's her own personal choice
shehas an intimate act with guys who don't care who she is
We find it intimate, she probably doesn't. And that's kinda my gripe with it too.
She lets guys touch her body this means she thinks thise guys deserve to touch her body. Low self esteem
I think it just means she is not a narcissist, lol.
I think it means she thinks of herself lowly. Lok
Not necessarily. She might even think she is a sex goddess
numer of partners don't define her skills. prostitutes have numerous partners.
So? That changes nothing about this hypothetical person's perspective
As far as your poll I didn't vote. I'd lean towards E, but I wouldn't say it makes no difference, because it does make a difference in how the relationship plays out. Depending on the girl, I can deal with different timing of sex if the relationship is worthwhile.
Thanks. By saying American I meant Western countries including Canada
AskerFYI: Europe IS western
@jacquesvol so is America
Only sluts will agree with you