Is he here just for the sex?

LolaHarmony
Is he here just for the sex?

I met this guy online about 2 months ago and we talked for few days before agreeing to meet. We went on a first date which was great but we ended up going back to my place and I gave the cookie away.
Surprisngly, he texted me that night to let me know he made it home safe and had a great time and that he would love to see me again.
for the next 2 months we've been texting each other everyday, calling every other day, and seeing each other about 3 times a week. We went on dates, movies, dinner that didn't end up with us being naked, we have also been spending a lot of time at each other places for sleepovers and getaway weekends. He was also willing to meet my friends for my best friend birthday party. We talk about everything, family, life, previous relationships, moral value and so much more. It's always fun time to go out or hangout with him.
But it all collapsed when we started talking about the purpose of all this. He said he just came out of a 6 years relationship (6 months ago) and that he is not ready to commit now. He would like to keep seeing me, spend time with me, take me out , hangout but he would need time to get ready...
Is it a way to get all the benefits of a relationship without the commitment?
Should I stick around and wait until he's ready (if he ever gets ready) considering that we've only starting dating 2 months ago?
I'm 21 and he's 27
what should I do?
Is he here just for the sex?
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