Wow, thank you for the detailed answer. What are the reasons for a guy to decide he doesn't want to be friends with benefits anymore? What are the odds of him developing romantic feelings? What are the reasons for him to decline such a proposal? Is he going to think that the girl is easy? So many questions :D
I'd say that maybe 10% of guys are the type to get attached, and might not want friends with benefits for that reason. A few are religious, and others either aren't physically attracted enough to the girl, are wary of her reputation (sleeps around, perhaps a high risk of STDs), or he has issues with her personality or behavior. Girls who seem psycho, clingy, depressed, or needy/jealous are often avoided, even at the expense of casual sex. Also girls who can't shut up - many people prefer to keep their friends with benefits relationships private. As for not wanting to continue an existing friends with benefits, the most likely reasons are that he's either found someone else, or that he suspects (or knows) that she is developing feelings and it's going to get messy. Or, maybe he just becomes too busy to even reliably fulfill his obligations as a friends with benefits.As much as guys want sex, if they are experienced and not chaotic themselves, they will have learned that the only thing worse than no sex is being stuck with a person (cont)
who brings drama and chaos into his life.
Thank you so much!!! :)
i see, but if we have had sex a few times already, doesn't that makes us friends with benefits :D
notta... you gotta be clear about those things or someone might think they are working on a relationship.
I see, thank you. :)
sure, but wouldn't it be already ruined?
Yes, if you start having sex and its not a committed relationship. But are you just wanting sex? and why not a relationship?
im not in the mood for a relationship at the moment and a girl's got needs :D so im researching for other ways :D
I had a friends with benefits for about 2 months and it got weird after a while, it was fun and needs were met, but I am honestly glad its over and enjoying some alone time.
oh yeah, i have not thought about that... does it only get weird? does it become boring at some point?
It got interesting and fun, we had threesomes and did a couple swapping, it got weird when he wanted to exploit me and use me as a toy for other guys and get paid for sex, that's when I said no, I'm no sex slave.
i hope you're alright!!!
you need to be careful, the sex trade, sex slave thing is not my thing, if its yours, have at it, but my ex was a bit of a womanizer and abusive, thats why we ar not together anymore.
i hope you're alright!!!PS. dont mind the one before :D
oh.. LOL! I thought you said, hope you are right. have you had a threesome?
no, I've been only with two guys and the sex with the 2nd one was terrible- i dont know how i can recover from that.. im traumatized :D any advice on how to forget the feeling?
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I suppose you're right :)
i figured :D
how would you respond if a girl you've never met before invited you over for coffee?
I would probably come but would be very aware of my surroundings making sure I was not being set up for a robery
you are a very thoughtful man. :D
Well thank you, your a very kind woman
Thank you! :)
was it because of her looks that you declined? :D
Not really. I'm a virgin, so I'd rather give it to somebody I care for.
i see, that's really nice of you, i hope you find that somebody soon :)
did she literally just go like "ay, i need a f*ckbuddy, be mine?" 😂😂😂
Hugz ! I wish you the best of luck and many happy memories.🍀🐶🍀